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In loving memory of
Barry G. Oathout
  • October 31, 1941
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  • May 06, 2022

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Barry Oathout, 80, passed away peacefully at home in Daytona Beach Friday, May 6, 2022, with his life long partner Deborah Chandley and his son Barry Christopher “Chris” at his side. He was born October 31, 1941, in Albany, New York to Benno and Dorothy Dyer Oathout.

Barry worked 35 years at the Tri-State Industrial Laundry and 13 years as a school bus driver at Bethlehem Central School District, where he enjoyed his time on the bus with the school kids. Barry also enjoyed going to camp at Paradise Cove in Sylvan Beach. He would have the best time fishing on Oneida Lake and sitting around campfires with his friends.

In 2008, he retired to Ocala, Florida, and joined OSA Gun Range, where he enjoyed competition shooting with the guys, and on Wednesdays teaching the ladies how to shoot. In 2017, Barry fulfilled his life-long dream of living near the beach when he moved with Deborah to Daytona Beach, Florida. He loved surf-fishing, and his weekly lunchtime and visits with his son Chris. Barry was known as the “blue-eyed guy with the big smile and quick wit”. He was wonderful at making everyone laugh and smile.

Barry is survived by his soul mate and partner of 22 years, Deborah Chandley, son, Barry Christopher (Barbara), daughter, Kelly, sister Lynn (Harold) Hunt, 4 grandchildren, and 5 great-grandchildren.

Barry wished there to be no funeral services but rather for people to remember him as he was. Barry is so dearly loved by his family and friends, and his love and memory will live in our hearts forever.


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  1. Sheila Filkins says:
    12 May 2022
    I will never forget all the wonderful times we had together when we went out to eat or just visiting each other. Barry was so funny, so full of life. He will be dearly missed. My deepest condolences to you, Debbie, and his family and friends. Rest in peace dear friend.

  2. Cindy Cirillo posted an image:
    12 May 2022
    Kelly, Barry and Debbie (Front Row)<br />
Kyle, Barb, Chris    (Back  Row)<br />
All together for the holiday
    Kelly, Barry and Debbie (Front Row)
    Kyle, Barb, Chris (Back Row)
    All together for the holiday

  3. Sharon lit a candle:
    12 May 2022
    Lit since May 12, 2022 at 5:40:35 AM

  4. Amanda Kawczak lit a candle:
    11 May 2022
    Lit since May 11, 2022 at 5:34:45 PM

  5. Jessica Cirillo lit a candle:
    11 May 2022
    Lit since May 11, 2022 at 5:00:50 PM

  6. Scott and Donna VanHoesen lit a candle:
    11 May 2022
    Lit since May 11, 2022 at 5:52:28 PM

  7. Cindy Cirillo posted an image:
    11 May 2022
    Barry and Debbie Chandley
    Barry and Debbie Chandley

  8. Cindy Cirillo posted an image:
    11 May 2022
    Barry and his Mom
    Barry and his Mom

  9. Nick and Chick says:
    11 May 2022
    We had many fun times with our friend. He sure will be missed. Love you

  10. Chris oathout posted an image:
    11 May 2022
    Miss you already dad
    Miss you already dad

  11. Chris oathout posted an image:
    11 May 2022
    Words can’t express my gratitude for the care Debbie gave my dad
    Words can’t express my gratitude for the care Debbie gave my dad

  12. obitadmin posted an image:
    10 May 2022
    Big Catch!
    Big Catch!

  13. obitadmin posted an image:
    10 May 2022
    Chris, Barry, Deb, and Barb
    Chris, Barry, Deb, and Barb

  14. obitadmin posted an image:
    10 May 2022
    Barry riding a motorcycle
    Barry riding a motorcycle

  15. obitadmin posted an image:
    10 May 2022
    Barry fishing
    Barry fishing

  16. obitadmin posted an image:
    10 May 2022
    Barry at the gun range
    Barry at the gun range

  17. obitadmin posted an image:
    10 May 2022
    Barry and his son Chris
    Barry and his son Chris

  18. obitadmin posted an image:
    10 May 2022
    Barry and Deb
    Barry and Deb

  19. Cindy Cirillo posted an image:
    10 May 2022
    We all went to Lake Weir.  What <br />
A great time we had……..
    We all went to Lake Weir. What
    A great time we had……..

  20. Cindy Cirillo lit a candle:
    10 May 2022
    Lit since May 10, 2022 at 5:31:36 PM

  21. Cindy Cirillo says:
    08 May 2022
    I will miss you my friend as you were a part of our family many years. If I could wash away my tears and calm my fears I would not have been so selfish to see you stay. A smile was always on your face even through times of sickness as you awaited your fate. The sadness I feel is more about losing you forever then following my faith. In life you made me smile and in death your memories will do the same. I didn’t want you to leave us but the lord has better plans. Rest In Peace and love you forever. ❤️

    Cindy Cirillo

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