Barry Scott Goldetsky (April 19, 1956 - December 22, 2025)

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Barry Scott Goldetsky
  • April 19, 1956
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  • December 22, 2025

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Barry Scott Goldetsky (69) who resided in white bear lake Minnesota and Ocala Florida passed peacefully on December 22,2025.

He was born in St. Paul Minnesota on April 19,1956. He graduated from Central High School
in 1974 with a scholarship for academics and wresting at the University of St Thomas.
Barry was a well rounded athlete, played football, baseball and wrestled from childhood
through college. He also participated in a bowling league “The Red eyes”. Barry had a love for animals but his dogs were his best friends. Barry and his older brother Bob founded B&B produce company in 1978. He finished his career in the produce industry in 2016 as the food,
safety and sanitation Director. During his retirement he enjoyed quality time with his family, looking at cars, taste testing different foods, going for scenic drives and much more. He will always be remembered for his kindness, humor and devotion to family.

Barry is survived by his eldest daughter Alisa Goldetsky, youngest daughter Brooke Berg (Tom
Berg), his granddaughters Sophie and Ryleigh. previously married to Jennifer Gordon, with
whom he shared an enduring bond. He is also survived by his Older brother and best friend Bob
Goldetsky(Sandy Goldetsky), Lynne Goldetsky and Natalie Amland. Barry was a beloved uncle
and great uncle to several nieces/nephews. He is preceded in death by his parents Benny and
Rita Goldetsky.


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  1. JLG says:
    14 Jan 2026
    I’m not sure how I’m functioning every day? I don’t feel like I’m in my body . The depth of this lost after 43 years of loving you is so unbearable. You were 1 of a kind . A heart so big, a presence so strong, it’s quiet here now, nothing is the same . None of us are the same , you took so much of us with you . I hope you knew how much we all loved you and how beautiful you were . I don’t know how this is real life . Eternity is my love

  2. BLB says:
    14 Jan 2026
    I think I'm hoping to find you here. I'm hoping to hear from you. I'm hoping you know how much I miss you. I'm hoping to see you again.

  3. Brooke says:
    13 Jan 2026
    Thinking about you extra these last of couple days. I feel like you're trying to tell me that you're okay (even though I'm not) I feel some comfort in knowing you are❤️ I am counting down until I see you again dad. I miss you so much. I love you.

  4. Alisa says:
    12 Jan 2026
    I miss you so much dad, I hurt in ways I never imagined possible. I’m going to be forever changed but will always keep you alive in our lives. You left your mark on the world and it will never be right without you here with us. I am
    Proud of you! You gave it all you had and I saw joy in your eyes! Watch over us and say hi when you can! My dad ❤️

  5. Alisa lit a candle:
    12 Jan 2026
    Lit since January 12, 2026 at 1:15:32 PM

  6. Brooke lit a candle:
    10 Jan 2026
    Lit since January 10, 2026 at 1:37:56 PM

  7. Brenda says:
    10 Jan 2026
    Barry, It still does not seem real. Cannot imagine this life without your big grin in it and your favorite phrase, “Can I ask you dumb question.” So many memories hard to put into words. From times at your apartment to times when you lived with us. I am also so thankful for all the time you lived with dad as you were so close, so similar, and the best of friends. We got to see you often and I am so grateful for that. We will keep your memory alive! I hope you are with Amy. Until we all get to see you again, rest in peace and breathe freely in Heaven. We love you so much. Brenda, Mike, and Makena

  8. Ashley Rose says:
    09 Jan 2026
    My message auto corrected me :( ** you WILL ALWAYS BE MISSED and NEVER FORGOTTEN

  9. Ashley Rose says:
    08 Jan 2026
    B,
    The absolute best person I’ve ever met!!! The most loving, kind person on the planet. You will never missed!
    So many memories I will hold on tight for ever. Growing up, to having my own treating myself and my son like your own was so special.
    You will be missed and you are so loved️
    Rest in peace B I love you

  10. Ashley Rose lit a candle:
    08 Jan 2026
    Lit since January 8, 2026 at 1:57:32 PM

  11. Jordan Rose says:
    08 Jan 2026
    My 1st memory that comes to my mind is the 1st time I watched iron man and it was with him and I can remember clear as day and I was only like 4 we had snacks and it was just a fun day and even tho he wasn’t my biological grandpa I loved him like he was Rest in paradise ❤️

  12. Thomas lit a candle:
    08 Jan 2026
    Lit since January 8, 2026 at 1:59:10 AM

  13. Sophie Goldetsky says:
    07 Jan 2026
    Too my grandpa i know l annoyed you sometimes and was not nice but that never meant i did not love you . You are one of the best people i know . You always listen to what we had to say even if you didn’t care you gave good advice even if it was funny it stilled help and most importantly you loved us no matter what we did . You are so missed you are still so loved but my biggest wish is the you have no more pain and that you are in a better place i love you so much and you will always live in my heart

  14. Taylor Downs lit a candle:
    07 Jan 2026
    Lit since January 7, 2026 at 1:33:52 PM

  15. Andrea Quinn says:
    07 Jan 2026
    I never had the chance to meet you but I heard so much about you. You and my hubby should've met here on earth bc you had so much in common. Maybe up there in heaven you both can make it happen.
    R. I. P.

  16. Andrea Quinn lit a candle:
    07 Jan 2026
    Lit since January 7, 2026 at 1:20:24 PM

  17. Jennifer lit a candle:
    07 Jan 2026
    Lit since January 7, 2026 at 1:58:15 PM

  18. Jennifer says:
    07 Jan 2026
    Once in a lifetime, you meet someone who feels like home.
    You were my soulmate — the love of my life.

    What we shared didn’t need explanations or labels. It lived in the way we understood each other, the way you knew my heart, and the way I knew yours. That kind of love doesn’t disappear. It stays woven into who I am.

    You walk with me now in memory, in quiet moments, and in the love that will always belong to you. I carry you with me — today and always.
    Forever grateful it was you.

    You continue living through our girls, and our. Granddaughters .

  19. Brooke says:
    07 Jan 2026
    I miss you so much, Dad. I know all of my best traits came from you, as you are the absolute embodiment of kindness, love, joy, intelligence, and humor. I can't imagine living so long without you, but I'm holding on to the hope of seeing you again. Please know how much I love you.

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