Benjamin Joseph Flanders (August 18, 1944 - February 20, 2025)

In loving memory of
Benjamin Joseph Flanders
  • August 18, 1944
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  • February 20, 2025

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BJ Flanders (80) originally from New York, NY, passed away surrounded by his loving wife and medical staff February 20, 2025. BJ was born August 18, 1944 in Manhattan, New York to Mabel and Joseph Flanders. He worked in several areas of the business sector before starting his career with New York EMS. He started as a volunteer and loved it. His career lasted over twenty years. BJ enjoyed working in the different Burroughs as a paramedic and rising through the ranks to become Lieutenant. He also was an honorary recognized 9/11 survivor.

BJ was a multi-talented, award-winning swimmer in Boys High School. In his early adulthood, he did standup comedy and improv at local comedy clubs.

BJ was a beloved member of Christian Worship Center Church for thirteen years. He participated in the Men’s Ministry. He loved giving to the different charities at his church.

He is survived by his wife, Joanne; sons, Sean and Nicholas; and daughter, Mia. BJ is preceded in death by his parents, Joseph and Mabel Flanders.

A dedication service for BJ will be held at his home church, Christian Worship Center, at a date to be determined. In lieu of flowers, please make donations in his name to Christian Worship Center Children’s Charities.

A Gofundme fundraiser has been started in honor of B.J. Flanders to benefit scholarships for the youth department at Christian Worship Center. To donate to this cause, please go to the website below:

https://www.gofundme.com/f/honoring-bj-flanders-support-his-legacy?qid=246147b7288aca7442cdf8a0641553c0


Instead of flowers, the family would prefer if you would make a donation to
Christian Worship Center Children's Charities

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  5. Curtis Waxenberg says:
    14 Mar 2025
    BJ was first my supervisor then my partner. I learned how to be a boss from him. He always wore a smile even when he was chewing you out for stupidity (I got a lot of those). He was always a voice of reason. A man can nothing of another than their respect. BJ, you always had mine. Rest in peace sir.

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  8. Brandy says:
    14 Mar 2025
    BJ was a great man and always had the most interesting stories to tell. Gonna miss him!

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  14. Peter Hosey says:
    12 Mar 2025
    BJ was a terrific person as well as a boss under my tutelage from time to time. A very nice and polite person needed little direction as a boss. Godspeed BJ. I hope your last days were not filled with pain brother.

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  20. Bill ludwig says:
    12 Mar 2025
    Thank you for all you did as a supervisor and mentor.
    Bill ludwig 41b/47b3

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  26. Christine King says:
    12 Mar 2025
    We love you Cardinal Flanders and we’re so thankful to God for allowing us the opportunity to know you.

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  35. James and Mary Ghent says:
    12 Mar 2025
    Our sincere condolences to you and family with love.

    James and Mary Ghent

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  37. John Peruggia says:
    12 Mar 2025
    Rest in Peace BJ
    You were my first supervisor and a true gentleman

    I remember you dearly

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    12 Mar 2025
    Such a sweet and kind neighbor. ♥️

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