Benjamin Joseph Flanders (August 18, 1944 - February 20, 2025)

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Benjamin Joseph Flanders
  • August 18, 1944
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  • February 20, 2025

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BJ Flanders (80) originally from New York, NY, passed away surrounded by his loving wife and medical staff February 20, 2025. BJ was born August 18, 1944 in Manhattan, New York to Mabel and Joseph Flanders. He worked in several areas of the business sector before starting his career with New York EMS. He started as a volunteer and loved it. His career lasted over twenty years. BJ enjoyed working in the different Burroughs as a paramedic and rising through the ranks to become Lieutenant. He also was an honorary recognized 9/11 survivor.

BJ was a multi-talented, award-winning swimmer in Boys High School. In his early adulthood, he did standup comedy and improv at local comedy clubs.

BJ was a beloved member of Christian Worship Center Church for thirteen years. He participated in the Men’s Ministry. He loved giving to the different charities at his church.

He is survived by his wife, Joanne; sons, Sean and Nicholas; and daughter, Mia. BJ is preceded in death by his parents, Joseph and Mabel Flanders.

A dedication service for BJ will be held at his home church, Christian Worship Center, at a date to be determined. In lieu of flowers, please make donations in his name to Christian Worship Center Children’s Charities.

A Gofundme fundraiser has been started in honor of B.J. Flanders to benefit scholarships for the youth department at Christian Worship Center. To donate to this cause, please go to the website below:

https://www.gofundme.com/f/honoring-bj-flanders-support-his-legacy?qid=246147b7288aca7442cdf8a0641553c0


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  13. Barbara Grady Baumgarten says:
    12 Mar 2025
    I worked with BJ back in the early 80’s out of KCH and it was such a pleasure. I’m so sorry for his families loss.

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  15. Loyld & Earline Glenn says:
    12 Mar 2025
    To my good friend, who I met getting my first Covid shot. We stayed in contact from that day forward. I would as it is known with my brother, get "Wellness Checkup text from BJ". My wife and I visited
    Christian Worship Center, and enjoyed his church, along with his Pastor, Choir and Congregation. BJ was a true gentleman and a wonderful person, who we will truly miss.
    May God receive our brother in Christ with open arms. May God Bless our Brother Benjamin Joseph Flanders.
    Loyld & Earline Glenn

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  17. Garrett Riller sr says:
    12 Mar 2025
    To Elder,, Flanders and Family, Brother, Garrett and Angela Riller, prayers of love and support. We are so grateful for the times that we were able to share, with our dear brother. Memories that are imprinted on our minds, it is when we had the opportunity to act together, in the stage play, put on by CWC, thank you, my brother, you will be deeply missed.

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  23. Arnold Eugene Jr says:
    12 Mar 2025
    BJ, you have inspired so many at CWC and I thank God for your support to my family. Thank You for excepting me as part of your family. Fly High and continue to watch over us. 1Love#the Eugenes

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  35. Bessie W. says:
    12 Mar 2025
    Although I only met you for a brief time, it felt like we were long-term friends. I'll miss your stories, smile and qorky humor but angels in heaven waited long enough for a fella like you. ❤️

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  37. ANNETTE J PETERKIN says:
    12 Mar 2025
    Brother BJ, we miss you already! We do thank God for sending Bro. B J our way. He was a blessing in our lives, and it was an honor getting to know him! He left us with love, laughter, and so many great memories. Bro. BJ will live on in our hearts and memories. Hello will forever be our 911 Hero!❤️❤️, Your Peterkin Family...

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  44. Candra Dickey says:
    12 Mar 2025
    You will be truly missed BJ you were one of a kind

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  48. J Westbrook posted an image:
    12 Mar 2025
    Beautiful soul you made a impact on my life I miss you bj
    Beautiful soul you made a impact on my life I miss you bj

  49. Joanne Flanders says:
    11 Mar 2025
    Sugarlips, miss you my Hero❣️

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