Everyone in a kin system contributes to the whole family unit. In Brian Adkins’ case, he was our beloved goofball; a quick wit, a hollowing laugh, a smile that could light up a room of people. He had more charms than a Hallmark Store, or as his wife Kahlin says, “Brian was a goofy, hilarious guy who could get a laugh out of anyone.” Sadly, we won’t have that sunshine to share any longer. Brian Wesley Adkins, 33, Ormond Beach, died Monday, Aug. 6, 2012 with his family by his side. He was born Dec. 7, 1978. Brian was graduated from Flagler Palm Coast High School in 1997, where he met and fell in love with Kahlin, and attended Daytona State College. Brian worked at various restaurants during his life and was a self-taught, culinary genius, who would dazzle friends and family with extraordinary dishes and modestly explain, “It was just something I whipped together.” And there is one more characteristic we will all miss; Brian’s sense of humanity; some would describe as generous to a fault. “He was a caring and compassionate man, who put all others above himself,” Kahlin said. In addition to Kahlin, Brian’s survivors include his parents, Linda and Robert Adkins, Flagler Beach; brother, Scott Adkins and his fiancé, Mariah Matton; material grandparents, Joyce & Bill Goudie; aunt and uncle Tom and Barbara Adkins, Daytona Beach; cousins Rick and Karen Bayliff, Ormond Beach, Marcos and Rene Colon, Orlando; father-in-law, Godwin and his wife, Diane Kelly; brother-in-law, Casey Kelly; sister-in-law, Elyse Kelly; and other in laws, Denise and Joe Kelly, Brop and Random Burnett and Emmet Kelly.
A memorial mass will be said 2:00PM, Friday, August 10, 2012 at Our Lady of Lourdes Catholic Church, Daytona Beach with Father Phil officiating. A celebration of Brian’s life will follow immediately in the church hall.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of loss.
Love Debby and Shawn
-Elizabeth Jones
I am beyond sorry about Brian's passing. I cannot fathom your sorrow. Words are such poor tools to express how I am feeling for you. Just know that I am one of dozens of people who have you in our hearts and in our thoughts. We are told that time will help ease the hurt. I sure hope that is correct, because I am pretty sure that Brian would not want you to be miserable and sad the rest of your days. He loved you that much, I am sure. As we all mourn his death, we can be thankful that we all were privileged to have him in our lives---even for just a little while. He was a special gift. I will think of him and smile. And at the same time, I will continue keeping you in my thoughts and in my prayers. Hang on to your memories and to each other. You are surrounded by love. May God hold you close.
Bev Grissom
Brian and Kahlin in Nassau, Bahamas 2011
Brian in Miami Beach, FL 2008
Brian and Kahlin on the Carnival Ecstacy 2011
Brian, Kahlin, Bob and Linda at Our Lady of Lourdes Church, Daytona Beach
Brian overseeing the world
Brian and Kahlin in Nassau, Bahamas 2011
Brian in Port Lucaya, Bahamas 2011
Brian and Kahlin Engagement Photo Jupiter Beach, FL 2008
Brian at Port of Palm Beach, FL 2007
Brian and Kahlin Christmas 2008
Brian and Kahlin in Lake Tahoe, CA 2005
Brian and Kahlin in 2000
Brian and Kahlin at the Kistemaker White Party 2011
Brian
Brian's high school graduation
Brian in Northern California
Brian and Kahlin at the wedding of Melissa and Eric
Brian and friends
Brian and Kahlin in Clearwater Beach, FL
Brian in Clearwater Beach, FL
Brian and Kahlin at the Cancer Society Cattle Baron's Ball
Brian and Kahlin goofing around at Delray Beach, FL 2006
Brian in Napa Valley, 2005
Brian in Delray Beach, FL