Constance Elfa Cupac (October 25, 1938 - February 27, 2023)

In loving memory of
Constance Elfa Cupac
  • October 25, 1938
  • -
  • February 27, 2023

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Obituary

Our dear Mom, affectionately known as Nana or Miss Connie, Constance Elfa Cupac of Merritt Island, Florida, passed away on the 27th of February 2023 at the age of 84 with family by her side.

Connie was an island girl. Born and raised in the beautiful island paradise of Antigua, WI; she joins her late parents, Lawrence and Eileen Gonsalves. She met our late dad, Daniel Ivan Cupac, while he was in the Navy stationed in Antigua. We are comforted imagining them, along with her late son, Larry Cupac, and other family members all holding hands and dancing once again in their forever paradise.

Connie is survived by her three children: Kathy Buthker, Dan Cupac, Carole Quintal, daughter-in-law Roberta Cupac, and son-in-law Clint Quintal of Merritt Island, Florida. She is also survived by nine grandchildren, eleven great-grandchildren, her brothers- Gene and Larry Gonsalves, and many nieces and nephews.

Miss Connie was a pre-school teacher at Faith Lutheran in Merritt Island, Florida for 25+ years. In fact, if you had a garage sale between the years of 1990-2015 it is a good chance she was there “sailing” with her many grandchildren buying items for her classroom and everyone else! Miss Connie shared her love of children with Divine Mercy as well; she taught in the Rainbow Room for 15+ years. Miss Connie worked long days, but the amount of joy she received from all her children filled her heart.

Nana was the taxi driver, ice cream buyer, date night babysitter, gift giver, and love provider to her nine grandchildren and eleven great-grandchildren. She helped raise many of these said grandchildren without the blink of an eye. Nana’s unselfish daily gifts of her time, energy, and compassion to her grands were simply beautiful. BEST.NANA.EVER.

Mom was undeniably the best role model to have as a mother. She always put the family first, checked for our needs, and supported her four children in every way possible. She was our hero. Our rock. Our loving, devoted mother, and we were blessed to have her. We know mom is watching us from above and will protect us through the rest of our journey here until we all meet again in forever paradise.

Finally, Mom spent the last four years of her life at an Adult Family Home in Rockledge, Florida. Our family is forever grateful to RC and Karen Wilkes at Above The Mark Care. The absolute love, care, and kindness they provided comforted our entire family. We love you guys!

To all who ever loved her, worked with her, or called her a friend. Thank you. She loved you right back!

Church Service will be held at Divine Mercy Catholic Church on Saturday, March 25th at 1PM – open to the community

Celebration of Life for family will be held at Faith Lutheran Church on Saturday, March 25th 2:30-5:30

The family asks that people make donations in support of Alzheimer’s Research, in lieu of sending flowers.


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  1. Carole & Clint lit a candle:
    25 Mar 2024
    Lit since March 25, 2024 at 3:57:35 PM

  2. Carole & Clint posted an image:
    25 Mar 2024
    March 25, 2023<br />
Memorial and Celebration of Life<br />
"Be and be better. For (she) existed." <br />
- Maya Angelou
    March 25, 2023
    Memorial and Celebration of Life
    "Be and be better. For (she) existed."
    - Maya Angelou

  3. Katya posted an image:
    28 Feb 2024
    We love you Nana!
    We love you Nana!

  4. Love and Miss You, Nana- Clint lit a candle:
    27 Feb 2024
    Lit since February 27, 2024 at 2:02:00 AM

  5. Love and Miss you, Mom lit a candle:
    27 Feb 2024
    Lit since February 27, 2024 at 2:49:56 AM

  6. Carole posted an image:
    26 Feb 2024
    One year with your angel wings.<br />
I miss you so much. <br />
My hero.<br />
 I love you,  Carole
    One year with your angel wings.
    I miss you so much.
    My hero.
    I love you, Carole

  7. Carole- Happy Birthday xoxo lit a candle:
    25 Oct 2023
    Lit since October 25, 2023 at 10:40:36 PM

  8. Carole & Clint lit a candle:
    27 Aug 2023
    Lit since August 27, 2023 at 8:11:39 PM

  9. Clint & Carole - missing our 'favorite girl' xo lit a candle:
    27 Jul 2023
    Lit since July 27, 2023 at 7:23:32 AM

  10. Clint & Carole lit a candle:
    30 Jun 2023
    Lit since June 30, 2023 at 6:13:38 PM

  11. Clint says:
    06 Jun 2023
    I love and miss you Nana

  12. Carole- LOVE You xoxo lit a candle:
    26 May 2023
    Lit since May 26, 2023 at 5:34:57 PM

  13. Carole and Clint lit a candle:
    24 Apr 2023
    Lit since April 24, 2023 at 4:45:58 PM

  14. Carole posted an image:
    24 Apr 2023
    My heart is full of love for you, Mom. <br />
Missing you.
    My heart is full of love for you, Mom.
    Missing you.

  15. Chorthip lit a candle:
    23 Apr 2023
    Lit since April 23, 2023 at 4:17:51 PM

  16. Katya lit a candle:
    17 Apr 2023
    Lit since April 17, 2023 at 4:28:22 PM

  17. clint quintal lit a candle:
    11 Apr 2023
    Lit since April 11, 2023 at 4:25:27 AM

  18. Katya lit a candle:
    10 Apr 2023
    Lit since April 10, 2023 at 4:36:41 PM

  19. Missing you, Mom. Xo - Carole lit a candle:
    04 Apr 2023
    Lit since April 4, 2023 at 4:05:04 PM

  20. Carole lit a candle:
    28 Mar 2023
    Lit since March 28, 2023 at 3:26:59 AM

  21. Katya lit a candle:
    27 Mar 2023
    Lit since March 27, 2023 at 3:15:27 PM

  22. Katya lit a candle:
    27 Mar 2023
    Lit since March 27, 2023 at 3:15:01 PM

  23. Katya says:
    27 Mar 2023
    One month of missing you <3 We love you so much.

  24. Catherine Randell lit a candle:
    25 Mar 2023
    Lit since March 25, 2023 at 3:05:25 PM

  25. Chorthip lit a candle:
    25 Mar 2023
    Lit since March 25, 2023 at 3:40:06 AM

  26. Sadie McKinnon posted an image:
    25 Mar 2023
    Sasha and Lance’s wedding
    Sasha and Lance’s wedding

  27. Sadie McKinnon posted an image:
    25 Mar 2023


  28. Sadie McKinnon lit a candle:
    25 Mar 2023
    Lit since March 25, 2023 at 3:36:34 AM

  29. Katie Cullen lit a candle:
    22 Mar 2023
    Lit since March 22, 2023 at 3:23:25 PM

  30. Carole lit a candle:
    17 Mar 2023
    Lit since March 17, 2023 at 3:36:00 PM

  31. Katya posted an image:
    16 Mar 2023
    I think this is top 3 favorite photos I've seen of her. Just living in her element xo
    I think this is top 3 favorite photos I've seen of her. Just living in her element xo

  32. Carole posted an image:
    16 Mar 2023
    circa '84-'86<br />
just found this while looking through her pictures<br />
Our Queen Bee<br />
for sure
    circa '84-'86
    just found this while looking through her pictures
    Our Queen Bee
    for sure

  33. Carole posted an image:
    15 Mar 2023
    January 2, 2023 <br />
Mom's Last Walk- Carole, Clint, Amaya, Barbara, and David (My beautiful in-laws)<br />
<br />
May you find peace in paradise<br />
<br />
I Love You <br />
<br />
I, Carole, love you, Mom<br />
Three words said daily<br />
Yesterday, today, and all the tomorrows<br />
<br />
I<br />
Daughter, wife, Mom, Aunt, teacher,  Coach<br />
Watched you and took notes<br />
Admired how unselfish you were<br />
Miss holding your hand<br />
<br />
Love<br />
Unconditionally<br />
Compassionately<br />
Devotedly<br />
Adoringly<br />
<br />
You<br />
Daughter, wife, Mom, Nana, Great- Nana, Aunt, teacher, Coach<br />
Taught me many lessons<br />
Gave everything to everyone<br />
Held my hand <br />
<br />
I, Carole, love you, Mom<br />
The last three words you said daily<br />
Until you could only speak with your eyes<br />
I love you
    January 2, 2023
    Mom's Last Walk- Carole, Clint, Amaya, Barbara, and David (My beautiful in-laws)

    May you find peace in paradise

    I Love You

    I, Carole, love you, Mom
    Three words said daily
    Yesterday, today, and all the tomorrows

    I
    Daughter, wife, Mom, Aunt, teacher, Coach
    Watched you and took notes
    Admired how unselfish you were
    Miss holding your hand

    Love
    Unconditionally
    Compassionately
    Devotedly
    Adoringly

    You
    Daughter, wife, Mom, Nana, Great- Nana, Aunt, teacher, Coach
    Taught me many lessons
    Gave everything to everyone
    Held my hand

    I, Carole, love you, Mom
    The last three words you said daily
    Until you could only speak with your eyes
    I love you

  34. Carole lit a candle:
    14 Mar 2023
    Lit since March 14, 2023 at 3:00:15 PM

  35. Alfred Archambault says:
    13 Mar 2023
    (John 14:1-3)
    "Let not your heart be troubled: ye believe in God, believe also in me.
    In my Father's house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you.
    And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also."

    Connie. A kind, loving, generous soul. She had this wonderful light inside her --you would hear her voice or see her or just think of her and break out into a grin. She looms large in my defining memory, showing by example how to pass kindness on. Words fail to adequately describe her kindness and inclusion: Rescuing me from boarding school on the weekends, coming to my H.S. graduation, the endearing teasings and easy-going jokes, making us "outside kids" feel like family, the heady 80s Antigua/Merritt Island 'limin' sessions with the Cupac Crew. She leaves behind one fond memory after another and sooo many fun stories...

    Y'all had a righteous mom. God bless her forever.

  36. Katya lit a candle:
    13 Mar 2023
    Lit since March 13, 2023 at 3:05:59 PM

  37. Katya lit a candle:
    13 Mar 2023
    Lit since March 13, 2023 at 3:05:14 PM

  38. Carole lit a candle:
    12 Mar 2023
    Lit since March 12, 2023 at 3:54:53 PM

  39. Dick & Rhoda Forrest lit a candle:
    12 Mar 2023
    Lit since March 12, 2023 at 3:24:09 PM

  40. Iris Hamilton Bradley says:
    12 Mar 2023
    The best second mom anyone could ask for and she raised all of us girls when we played softball
    Mrs. Cupac say no color and I loved her for that and she will be missed dearly.

  41. Iris Hamilton Bradley lit a candle:
    12 Mar 2023
    Lit since March 12, 2023 at 3:41:30 PM

  42. Iris Hamilton Bradley lit a candle:
    12 Mar 2023
    Lit since March 12, 2023 at 3:40:44 PM

  43. Chorthip lit a candle:
    12 Mar 2023
    Lit since March 12, 2023 at 3:47:45 PM

  44. Dacia lit a candle:
    12 Mar 2023
    Lit since March 12, 2023 at 3:35:48 PM

  45. Berta lit a candle:
    12 Mar 2023
    Lit since March 12, 2023 at 3:28:09 AM

  46. Carole lit a candle:
    11 Mar 2023
    Lit since March 11, 2023 at 3:58:28 PM

  47. Carole Quintal lit a candle:
    10 Mar 2023
    Lit since March 10, 2023 at 3:27:37 PM

  48. Katya lit a candle:
    10 Mar 2023
    Lit since March 10, 2023 at 3:11:44 PM

  49. Taylor Palmer says:
    10 Mar 2023
    Last night the kids and I saw what we thought was a really bright star in the sky. Avery said “I think that’s Nana, Hi Nana!”
    We miss you Nana! ❤️

  50. Carole posted an image:
    10 Mar 2023
    This was a beautiful day for a walk in Cocoa Village.<br />
We do miss our walks so much.
    This was a beautiful day for a walk in Cocoa Village.
    We do miss our walks so much.

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