Constance Elfa Cupac (October 25, 1938 - February 27, 2023)

In loving memory of
Constance Elfa Cupac
  • October 25, 1938
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  • February 27, 2023

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Obituary

Our dear Mom, affectionately known as Nana or Miss Connie, Constance Elfa Cupac of Merritt Island, Florida, passed away on the 27th of February 2023 at the age of 84 with family by her side.

Connie was an island girl. Born and raised in the beautiful island paradise of Antigua, WI; she joins her late parents, Lawrence and Eileen Gonsalves. She met our late dad, Daniel Ivan Cupac, while he was in the Navy stationed in Antigua. We are comforted imagining them, along with her late son, Larry Cupac, and other family members all holding hands and dancing once again in their forever paradise.

Connie is survived by her three children: Kathy Buthker, Dan Cupac, Carole Quintal, daughter-in-law Roberta Cupac, and son-in-law Clint Quintal of Merritt Island, Florida. She is also survived by nine grandchildren, eleven great-grandchildren, her brothers- Gene and Larry Gonsalves, and many nieces and nephews.

Miss Connie was a pre-school teacher at Faith Lutheran in Merritt Island, Florida for 25+ years. In fact, if you had a garage sale between the years of 1990-2015 it is a good chance she was there “sailing” with her many grandchildren buying items for her classroom and everyone else! Miss Connie shared her love of children with Divine Mercy as well; she taught in the Rainbow Room for 15+ years. Miss Connie worked long days, but the amount of joy she received from all her children filled her heart.

Nana was the taxi driver, ice cream buyer, date night babysitter, gift giver, and love provider to her nine grandchildren and eleven great-grandchildren. She helped raise many of these said grandchildren without the blink of an eye. Nana’s unselfish daily gifts of her time, energy, and compassion to her grands were simply beautiful. BEST.NANA.EVER.

Mom was undeniably the best role model to have as a mother. She always put the family first, checked for our needs, and supported her four children in every way possible. She was our hero. Our rock. Our loving, devoted mother, and we were blessed to have her. We know mom is watching us from above and will protect us through the rest of our journey here until we all meet again in forever paradise.

Finally, Mom spent the last four years of her life at an Adult Family Home in Rockledge, Florida. Our family is forever grateful to RC and Karen Wilkes at Above The Mark Care. The absolute love, care, and kindness they provided comforted our entire family. We love you guys!

To all who ever loved her, worked with her, or called her a friend. Thank you. She loved you right back!

Church Service will be held at Divine Mercy Catholic Church on Saturday, March 25th at 1PM – open to the community

Celebration of Life for family will be held at Faith Lutheran Church on Saturday, March 25th 2:30-5:30

The family asks that people make donations in support of Alzheimer’s Research, in lieu of sending flowers.


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  1. Carole posted an image:
    03 Mar 2023
    I made this for mom. She loved the beach.<br />
Our Angel now.
    I made this for mom. She loved the beach.
    Our Angel now.

  2. Carole says:
    03 Mar 2023
    This girl. She did everything for everyone without hesitation. When growing up, I always knew she was a special mom,
    but it wasn't until I became a mom that I realized it would be hard to emulate her. How did she do everything she did for everyone without complaining? Mom was my number one fan growing up. She was my coach, friend, taxi, and mother all in one beautiful little package. This girl. She loved to dance and sing. We call her dance.. "doing the nana".. it involves bringing your shoulders to your ears in time with the music (Try it!). This girl. Helped raise grandkids, great-grandkids, nieces, and nephews. She loved children and loved showing all children love and attention. This girl. Never lost her smile. Alzheimer's took her memory, but not her spirit. She loved and loved hard. This girl. Has left her legacy in the world by being selfless and loving to all who knew her, especially her family. This girl. Will be missed. I love you so much, mom.
    "Thank you. Thank you. Thank God for you, the wind beneath my wings"... My Hero.

  3. Carole says:
    03 Mar 2023
    God crowns you with love and mercy- a paradise crown.
    He wraps you in goodness- beauty eternal.
    Psalm 103:4-5

  4. Carole posted an image:
    03 Mar 2023
    Nice hat mom.
    Nice hat mom.

  5. Carole posted an image:
    03 Mar 2023
    Katya and Nana.. down by the river.
    Katya and Nana.. down by the river.

  6. Carole posted an image:
    03 Mar 2023
    Rocking the visors
    Rocking the visors

  7. Carole posted an image:
    03 Mar 2023
    Saturday morning walks. We will miss them!
    Saturday morning walks. We will miss them!

  8. Nicholas Cupac lit a candle:
    03 Mar 2023
    Lit since March 3, 2023 at 3:46:04 PM

  9. Diane Anderson lit a candle:
    03 Mar 2023
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  11. Sean Gonsalves says:
    03 Mar 2023
    My Dearest Aunt Elfa was how I liked to tease her. When I discovered he middle name I just ran with it and she always laughed. I’ve missed you for quite some time now, ever since you were diagnosed as it was never the same. We couldn’t go back in time to share memories anymore but your face lit up when we would talk because you’ve always treated me as one of your own, like so many of your other Nephews and Nieces. You will always hold a special place in my heart right next to Grandma and Grandpa as you three were the most influential in my childhood years. My deepest condolences to the many lives you’ve touched. You’ve left us in body but your spirit and legacy will live on forever. Love you and miss you, your favourite…..shhh don’t tell anyone, Nephew.

  12. clint quintal says:
    03 Mar 2023
    Carry each others' burdens and in this way you will fulfil the law of Christ.
    Galatians 6 : 2

    She personified this. She is with HIM now.
    What an example to us all.

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    03 Mar 2023
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  17. Linda Griffin says:
    03 Mar 2023
    At Bone builders class in Merritt Island Connie was our joyful counting angel and dancing queen until she moved to Rockledge. We still remember her smile that lit up our class…and how she was always so cheerful and loving. Rest in peace dear Connie and thank you for sharing your beautiful ways with us.

  18. Barbara Green lit a candle:
    03 Mar 2023
    Lit since March 3, 2023 at 3:06:49 AM

  19. David Quintal says:
    02 Mar 2023
    I always used to look forward to the end of the day in elementary school, for Nana to pick up Amaya, Kiki and I. She always had the car stocked with her signature mints because she knew how much we liked them, and she’d often take us to get ice-cream after school too. On weekends, she loved to find garage sales and get a little something for each of us. It was all these little things and more that made Nana so special. She always did anything she could to bring joy to her grandchildren, no matter how big or small the gesture. I love you always Nana.

  20. Donielle Stephan lit a candle:
    02 Mar 2023
    Lit since March 2, 2023 at 3:52:46 PM

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    02 Mar 2023
    Lit since March 2, 2023 at 3:02:00 PM

  22. Carole Quintal posted an image:
    02 Mar 2023
    Uncle Gene and his big (little) sis..same trip a few years ago.
    Uncle Gene and his big (little) sis..same trip a few years ago.

  23. Patty Scarpa posted an image:
    02 Mar 2023
    Connie and her brother Gene.  Picture taken at Larry's house several years ago.
    Connie and her brother Gene. Picture taken at Larry's house several years ago.

  24. Patty Scarpa posted an image:
    02 Mar 2023
    Connie and brother Gene at Larry's house several years ago.
    Connie and brother Gene at Larry's house several years ago.

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    02 Mar 2023
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  31. Sasha posted an image:
    02 Mar 2023
    Nana rockin the Antigua hat (& Barbuda flag) and dancing to reggae!
    Nana rockin the Antigua hat (& Barbuda flag) and dancing to reggae!

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    02 Mar 2023
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    02 Mar 2023
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  39. Auntie Pinkey says:
    02 Mar 2023
    A few years ago Connie spent almost my entire summer holiday in Florida taking me from mall to mall .... shopping. What fun we had. She was indefatigable. A wonderful, generous hearted lady with a quick sense of humour who deeply loved her family. Rest well....you will be missed.

  40. Mary Redman lit a candle:
    02 Mar 2023
    Lit since March 2, 2023 at 3:36:37 PM

  41. Amaya Quintal says:
    02 Mar 2023
    I will forever cherish the time spent with my sweet Nana-girl, as she was such a loving, caring, and special person. She never hesitated to do anything for anyone she loved, whether it was family, friends, students, etc. The memories with her I will hold onto forever, and I will always be proud to say that she was my nana. Love you forever Nana.

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