Obituary
In Loving Memory of James Edward Benham
11/3/1938 – 10/6/2023
With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of James Edward Benham, a steadfast pillar of love, faith, and service. James was born to Evelyn Bissel Benham and Oliver Benham on November 3, 1938, in Grand Rapids, Michigan. He is preceded in death by his wife, Phyllis Blevins Benham, and his parents and siblings, Vera Golembieski, Jean Hall, Oliver (Bud) Benham, and Richard Benham.
James’ unwavering love was evident in his 63-year marriage to Phyllis and the beautiful family they nurtured. A dedicated father to Theresa Benham, Catherine Chase, Beth Benham, and Margaret Kennedy (Robert), he enveloped his children in love, guiding them with wisdom throughout their lives.
His role as a grandfather and a ‘Great Papa’ brought new dimensions of joy to his life, shepherding the paths of Tanika, Ervin, Timothy, Caitlin, Siobahn, Bridget, James, and Robert. He delighted with the sparkling eyes of each new great-grandchild: Logan, Laikan, Lucille, Clara, Charlotte, Isabelle, Juliette, Casey, Carter, Phoebe, Elias, Luca, Sydney, Lewis, Elena, and Abigail.
His life was a testament to service and faith, with honor-filled years in the U.S. Marine Corps and a distinguished law enforcement and government service career. Jim’s law enforcement career began with the Kenosha Police Department; he then had a 30+ year career in federal law enforcement with the U.S. Treasury Department. Highlights included serving as one of the first sky marshals and an Associate Criminal Justice Professor at Illinois Valley Community College.
An active volunteer, Jim was a member of the Ottawa Noon Rotary. He served in various roles at Saint John XXII Catholic Church and the Knights of Columbus. His devotion extended beyond duty to an unwavering service to God, Country, and family, embedding a legacy of unshakeable values.
In remembrance of James, a memorial service will be held on Thursday, October 19, 2023, at 10:00 a.m. at Saint John XXIII Catholic Church, 13060 Palomino Lane, Fort Myers, FL 33912.
James’s physical presence will be sorely missed, yet his spirit and teachings live on in the lives and hearts of those he touched. His legacy, carved from duty, faith, and boundless love, will continue illuminating our paths.
Rest in peace, Dad, and may your soul join the saints in heaven, basking in eternal peace and divine love.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be generously directed in James’s memory to:
Verity Pregnancy and Medical Resource Center Donations can be made on their website https://veritypmc.com or mailed to Verity, 8890 Salrose Lane, Ste. 4, Fort Myers, FL 33912.
EWTN Global Catholic Network: A network dedicated to teaching the tenets of the Catholic faith; donations can be made through their website (www.ewtn.com) or mailed to EWTN, 5817 Old Leeds Road, Irondale, AL 35210.
Service
13060 Palomino Lane, Fort Myers, FL 33912
He was always devoted to his girls and especially Aunt Phyllis.
I know heaven is greater with Uncle Jim in the arms of the Lord.
May my cousins find comfort and closure in the warmth and memories surrounded by friends and family.
With love
Monica Benham Vannella
We tried to keep in touch over the years and I will remember him with all good memories.
Ben Redmond, former Regional Inspector, Philadelphia
Thank you Uncle Jim for all the fun when we were able to get together..and your little dog to !!
So enjoyed meeting your Dad, and spending time with him and your Mom. I think of them often.
My love to all of you, during your time of grief. They loved you all, so much ❤️