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In loving memory of
James “Jamie” Cantlay
  • December 04, 1967
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  • January 18, 2022

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James Alexander Cantlay, 54 of Port Orange, FL died Tuesday, January 18, 2022 at his home. Jamie as he was affectionately known as, was born December 4, 1967 in Morristown, NJ to the late Amy Elizabeth (nee Morrison) and Russell Copeland Cantlay. He graduated from Oxford Academy High School Class of 1985. Jamie married the love of his life, Lilias Bochenick in 2016. Jamie moved to Florida in 1990 and he was a Sport Fisherman for many years in Key West where he met Lilias. He moved to Port Orange in 2019 to be near his family. Jamie will be remembered for his sense of humor and being a loyal friend to all that knew him. He was preceded in death by his loving wife, Lilias in 2017 and his brother, Todd in 2015. He is survived by his brother, Doug of Port Orange; sister, Donna Miller of New Vernon, New Jersey and seven nieces and nephews. Private services will be held. 

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  1. Karen says:
    15 Nov 2022
    Just now discovering that Jamie has passed away almost a year ago .
    How very sad to come across this news .
    My condolences to all who loved him .

  2. Karen lit a candle:
    15 Nov 2022
    Lit since November 15, 2022 at 11:26:28 PM

  3. Connie Moore says:
    27 Jan 2022
    Jamie, It had been years since I saw you-but I was so glad to see you again and meet Lil at your fathers funeral.
    I will miss our interesting conversations these last few years! I know in my heart that you are at PEACE now. My heartfelt sympathy to your entire family…much love, Connie

  4. Donna Miller says:
    27 Jan 2022
    Dear Jamie, whenever I think of you I picture the adorable little boy that brought so much joy to our lives. So many of my earliest memories are of taking care of you, playing with you and loving you. I know your life was not always easy but you were always quick with a joke and the first to laugh. I am consoled by the belief that you are reunited with Lil and finally at peace.

  5. Douglas Cantlay says:
    26 Jan 2022
    Jamie. I will always remember you as that beautiful cherub little boy who brought so much more meaning to our family. Being your older brother was my first real sense of responsibility. Bathing you, diapering you, playing with you, helping our family care for you. I'm glad you caught all the fish you ever wanted, found love and now you two are together. Peace little brother. Rest well.

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