James Alexander Cantlay, 54 of Port Orange, FL died Tuesday, January 18, 2022 at his home. Jamie as he was affectionately known as, was born December 4, 1967 in Morristown, NJ to the late Amy Elizabeth (nee Morrison) and Russell Copeland Cantlay. He graduated from Oxford Academy High School Class of 1985. Jamie married the love of his life, Lilias Bochenick in 2016. Jamie moved to Florida in 1990 and he was a Sport Fisherman for many years in Key West where he met Lilias. He moved to Port Orange in 2019 to be near his family. Jamie will be remembered for his sense of humor and being a loyal friend to all that knew him. He was preceded in death by his loving wife, Lilias in 2017 and his brother, Todd in 2015. He is survived by his brother, Doug of Port Orange; sister, Donna Miller of New Vernon, New Jersey and seven nieces and nephews. Private services will be held.