John Weaver (September 17, 1946 - September 23, 2021)

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John Weaver
  • September 17, 1946
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  • September 23, 2021

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John W. Weaver, 75, of Zellwood FL was called home to rest on September 23, 2021 after a valiant & courageous battle with cancer. John was born in Richmond VA in 1946 and was raised along with his brother’s Gerald and Roland by his mother Evelyn Brown Darnell and step-father Alton Hill Darnell. John moved with his family to Florida in 1958 and attended Edgewater High School. He later attended night school to earn his GED while working during the day as a painter with his stepfather Alton. Later in life John worked for The Coca Cola Company/Coca Cola Refreshments from 1971 to 1995 and Carmax from 1995 until his retirement in 2012. John was an avid fan of Dodge/Chrysler, good food (“like mom use to make”), a great cup of unimaginably hot coffee, Westerns, oyster stew, long naps in his recliner, Little Debbie’s, butter beans, Richard Petty and Donald Trump. He never missed a chance to remind you that “it’s never as good as it use to be”. His heart was as big as his smile and seemed to heal from invisible wounds rather magically. He forgave anyone and second chances were endless (as long as you wanted one). He was happy to ignore the policy at Publix and dole out dollars to the lucky bagger who helped him to his car. Even during the height of COVID he was an avid hugger and hand shaker and was never denied either one. The ladies were “Hon” (respectfully southern) and the men were “Sir”. He had absolute disdain for football, mushrooms, hospitals and the beach. He met almost everyday with a smile and the superpower to hide his pain. It was often a losing battle to fight about who would pick up the check, but he seemed to enjoy the repartee. John was strong, brave, funny, smart, opinionated and yes, beautiful. He had more friends than he could count, but was undoubtedly surrounded in the knowledge he was loved. He will be remembered by so many and live forever in the hearts of those who loved him. John is preceded in death by his wife Beverly, mother Evelyn Darnell, stepfather Alton Darnell, brother Roland Weaver, and stepsister Carrie. John is survived by his 6 children Michelle, Yvonne, Teresa, Roxanne and son-in-law Bobby, John Jr and daughter-in-law Patricia, and Jeremy, several grandchildren, his brother Gerald and sister-in-law Peggy, sister-in-law Judy, several nieces and nephews and many more.

“God saw you getting tired
And a cure was not to be
So He put his arms around you
And whispered “Come to me”

Private Celebrations of Life to be held at later dates.
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  1. Michelle Brownrigg says:
    21 Nov 2022
    happy Thanksgiving day

  2. Cheryl A Weaver says:
    26 Sep 2022
    It's been one year and I think of you every day.

  3. Cheryl A Weaver lit a candle:
    24 Sep 2022
    Lit since September 24, 2022 at 9:27:39 AM

  4. Michelle says:
    24 Feb 2022
    Dear Dad, I’m sorry all of us girls Michelle,Yvonne and Teresa we didn’t have a chance to say goodbye and we love you!! That was taken away from us . We were on social media and other path ways . I hope that you know we loved you!! We want nothing from you, but for you to know how we feel.

  5. Yvonne Wood lit a candle:
    01 Feb 2022
    Lit since February 1, 2022 at 2:25:35 PM

  6. Michelle Brownrigg lit a candle:
    01 Feb 2022
    Lit since February 1, 2022 at 2:07:48 PM

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    01 Feb 2022
    Lit since February 1, 2022 at 2:07:11 PM

  8. Carol Wenzel says:
    05 Nov 2021
    A poem to my Love
    By Carol Wenzel

    Don't mourn for me
    Cause I'm still here
    I'll be at your side each night and day
    And in your heart I shall stay

    My spirit is free but I'll never depart
    As long as you keep me in your heart
    My body is gone But I'll always be near
    I'm everything you feel see and hear

    I'm the cardinal that flies by your window and sits in your tree and sings you a crescendo
    I'm the wind chimes that make a beautiful sound
    To let you know I'm still around

    I'm everywhere you want me to be
    Just look around and you'll see me

    Love you forever
    Carol

  9. Shay Michalik lit a candle:
    31 Oct 2021
    Lit since October 31, 2021 at 10:47:01 PM

  10. Elise and Sydnee says:
    24 Oct 2021
    Oh uncle John
    I am so glad you’re not suffering anymore. So many memories of you in them and we will make sure to keep them alive. You are already missed. We will be sure to keep Pops straight and sane. You were his beat friend and misses you like crazy. We love you and will see you again.

    Elise and Sydnee

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    24 Oct 2021
    Lit since October 24, 2021 at 10:22:43 PM

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    24 Oct 2021
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    24 Oct 2021
    Lit since October 24, 2021 at 10:52:02 PM

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    24 Oct 2021
    Lit since October 24, 2021 at 10:46:55 PM

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    23 Oct 2021
    Lit since October 23, 2021 at 10:48:40 PM

  16. Amanda Riggins says:
    23 Oct 2021
    I feel fortunate to have been able to spent time & know John aka Papa Weaver. He was such a softie under all the exterior and his genuine desire for things to be done right and well was best to my heart. As a co worker turned good friend of Roxanne, I have been blessed for over a decade of knowing both of these beautiful souls. While it is so sad to have to suffer the loss of John, all who knew him were lucky. He will never be forgotten and for all time loved.

  17. Amanda Riggins lit a candle:
    23 Oct 2021
    Lit since October 23, 2021 at 10:38:02 PM

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    23 Oct 2021
    Lit since October 23, 2021 at 10:13:07 PM

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    23 Oct 2021
    Lit since October 23, 2021 at 10:11:30 PM

  20. Mary Karen Shoff lit a candle:
    22 Oct 2021
    Lit since October 22, 2021 at 10:21:49 PM

  21. Gersom and Madeline Ramos says:
    22 Oct 2021
    It was certainly an honor meeting you at your wonderful daughter and my best friends wedding , if you could have done any better raising this beautiful girl you would have spoiled it ,our prayers went up ,and im sure the creator has you in his hands.

  22. Marcy says:
    22 Oct 2021
    To a wonderful and caring man. You always had a hug for me and a handshake for Ric when we had dinner. You will be so missed. I promise to always be there for your beautiful daughter.
    Fly high with the Angels and rest in peace forever.

  23. Gersom and Madeline Ramos lit a candle:
    22 Oct 2021
    Lit since October 22, 2021 at 10:55:07 PM

  24. Marcy says:
    22 Oct 2021
    A wonderful man and father of my best friend Roxie. Always had a smile and a hug for me and a hand shake for Ric at our dinners together. You will be so missed and loved by many. I promise I will always be there for your beautiful daughter.
    Fly high with the angels and rest in peace forever.
    Ric and Marcy Christenbury

  25. Bobby Shortnacy says:
    22 Oct 2021
    John... you will be missed by many. You are in my thoughts forever. We had some great times together. I was proud to be your son-in-law. You taught me many things.

  26. Bobby Shortnacy lit a candle:
    22 Oct 2021
    Lit since October 22, 2021 at 10:20:22 PM

  27. Carol Wenzel says:
    22 Oct 2021
    To my sweetheart and love of 6 1/2 years You will always be my true love You have left a void in my heart that will never be filled I know you are no longer in pain and at peace, and that is what I must realize You brought so much happiness into my life at a time when I really needed someone The good times and happiness that we shared will never be forgotten. Soar high my love and be at peace. You will forever be in my heart. Until we meet again
    Love you forever
    Carol

  28. Cheryl A Weaver says:
    22 Oct 2021
    Love you and miss you every day.

  29. Carol Wenzel lit a candle:
    22 Oct 2021
    Lit since October 22, 2021 at 10:08:18 PM

  30. Cheryl A Weaver says:
    22 Oct 2021
    Miss you very much every day.
    Love you.

  31. Cheryl A Weaver lit a candle:
    22 Oct 2021
    Lit since October 22, 2021 at 10:50:36 PM

  32. diane M larivee says:
    22 Oct 2021
    RIP John fly high, know you are missed immensely! God has put you at peace Keep those mopars roaring !always in our hearts ♥️

  33. diane M larivee lit a candle:
    22 Oct 2021
    Lit since October 22, 2021 at 10:36:18 PM

  34. David K Young & Brenda J Young lit a candle:
    22 Oct 2021
    Lit since October 22, 2021 at 10:31:32 PM

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    22 Oct 2021
    Lit since October 22, 2021 at 10:27:27 PM

  36. Roxanne Shortnacy lit a candle:
    22 Oct 2021
    Lit since October 22, 2021 at 10:42:42 PM

  37. Roxanne Shortnacy says:
    22 Oct 2021
    Dad, you were and always will be my hero. You taught me strength, forgiveness, the art of the "hand slapping" game, how to change the oil in my car, trust and so much more. I will mourn you everyday of my life, and celebrate your life every minute of the day. I will ALWAYS be daddy's girl and will always do my best to honor you.
    Love always,
    Rockie

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