Nancy De Feo (July 08, 1952 - September 23, 2022)

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Nancy De Feo
  • July 08, 1952
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  • September 23, 2022

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Nancy Jane DeFeo was born July 8th, 1952 to John and Nancy O’Mara in Rosedale, NY. She was one of five siblings that grew up in a good, Catholic household. She married her late husband Paul DeFeo Sr. and together they had five sons. Nancy lived her purpose through her love of family and her compassion and faith was felt by all who knew her. She leaves behind a world better then she found it and her children Paul Jr, Nicholas Sr, Dominick, Louie, Nicole, and her late son Joseph. As well as her grandchildren she loved with all her heart Kayla, Nicholas Jr, Destiny, Brianna, And Bella. She passed peacefully surrounded by those she loved on September 23rd, 2022 at the age of 70. Please join us in honoring our mothers life


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  1. Joette says:
    25 Sep 2023
    My dearest Nancy Jane,
    A year has passed since you left .. yet it feels like yesterday. I think of you ever day and miss you terribly… the world is very different without you in it. :(
    Sending you one of those really big tight hugs … love you FD

  2. Joette says:
    24 Sep 2023
    My dearest friend Nancy Jane , it’s been a year since you left … yet it feels like yesterday. A piece of my heart went with you but I am holding tight to the piece you left behind … my sister from another mother … my soul sister… I am missing you every day and always will.
    Love you FD

  3. Natalie says:
    04 Mar 2023
    So sorry to hear about your Beautiful Mother's passing. May God give all of you strength during these trying times. It's been a long time since Southeast, but all of you are still in my heart.

  4. Debbie says:
    30 Oct 2022
    Nancy will be missed forever. It’s sad not seeing or hearing from her every day. We were sisters. I miss her dearly.. Condolence and prayers to the family..

  5. Deborah Neal-Love says:
    15 Oct 2022
    Nancy my P2E sister. Meeting you was a lot of joy and fun. Your infectious spirit of Love and kindness, will stay in my heart forever. You are with God now. Take your rest Queen. My condolences to your family.

  6. Valerie says:
    15 Oct 2022
    I met Nancy when we were 19 and working our first jobs after HS. We connected right away and have been friends ever since. We have been thru a lot together and each other's support in many times of need. Nancy was one of the strongest woman I knew. Working two jobs, raising 5 boys, who today are good men whom she was extremely proud of. She was a wonderful Mom and great friend who will truly be missed ❤️

  7. Monika lit a candle:
    13 Oct 2022
    Lit since October 13, 2022 at 10:17:27 PM

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    11 Oct 2022
    Lit since October 11, 2022 at 10:11:11 PM

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    09 Oct 2022
    Lit since October 9, 2022 at 10:56:37 PM

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    09 Oct 2022
    Lit since October 9, 2022 at 10:10:08 PM

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    09 Oct 2022
    Lit since October 9, 2022 at 10:39:47 PM

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    09 Oct 2022
    Lit since October 9, 2022 at 10:34:22 PM

  13. Patricia lit a candle:
    08 Oct 2022
    Lit since October 8, 2022 at 10:49:41 PM

  14. Donna and Tom Richards lit a candle:
    04 Oct 2022
    Lit since October 4, 2022 at 10:19:31 PM

  15. Susan Pease lit a candle:
    04 Oct 2022
    Lit since October 4, 2022 at 10:32:57 AM

  16. Susan Pease says:
    04 Oct 2022
    My condolences, prayers and love go to Nancy and her family.
    Nancy's a special person and will be deeply missed.
    I have wonderful memories of Nancy and I am sure you all do too.
    God Bless all of you.

  17. Melissa lit a candle:
    03 Oct 2022
    Lit since October 3, 2022 at 10:59:34 AM

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    02 Oct 2022
    Lit since October 2, 2022 at 10:55:43 PM

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    01 Oct 2022
    Lit since October 1, 2022 at 10:03:19 PM

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    01 Oct 2022
    Lit since October 1, 2022 at 10:01:13 PM

  21. Carole Kemper says:
    01 Oct 2022
    I am grateful I had Nancy for a friend. We met as neighbors at Oceanwalk where we both owned a condo. We shared many mornings having coffee sitting in her patio with the ocean as our view. Nancy was the glue that brought all of us together for good times. We went through good and bad times, laughed and cried. I’m sad for myself but even more sad for hers boys and their amazing loved ones. Their will never be another soul like Nancy Jane.

  22. Joanne Hertzburg lit a candle:
    01 Oct 2022
    Lit since October 1, 2022 at 10:30:28 PM

  23. The Children of Grace Ballard says:
    01 Oct 2022
    To the family of Nancy De Feo,
    Our deepest condolences on your loss. Nancy was a good friend of our mother Grace who passed away 3 1/2 months ago she very good to our mother especially while she was in hospice and that is something we will never forget .may she rest in peace.

  24. Jasmine Llanos lit a candle:
    01 Oct 2022
    Lit since October 1, 2022 at 10:32:42 AM

  25. Vicki says:
    30 Sep 2022
    Rest In Peace aunt Nancy . You where always so caring and loving . Thank you for always listening and being there for me and Alexis . Your heart was full of love . You will be missed . We love you rest beautifully. Vicki akexis and Isabella

  26. Vicki lit a candle:
    30 Sep 2022
    Lit since September 30, 2022 at 9:45:14 PM

  27. Shelly says:
    30 Sep 2022
    I loved your Mom the first time we met. She was always so happy to help anyone in need. She was a good friend to so many & loved her family to the fullest. She was a dear friend & I’ll always remember her for our great talks & laughs. I miss her immensely ❤️

  28. Shelly lit a candle:
    30 Sep 2022
    Lit since September 30, 2022 at 9:18:02 AM

  29. Kelly and Dennis McGinn lit a candle:
    29 Sep 2022
    Lit since September 29, 2022 at 9:22:44 PM

  30. Brooke Heck lit a candle:
    29 Sep 2022
    Lit since September 29, 2022 at 9:45:23 PM

  31. Patricia Hitchcock says:
    29 Sep 2022
    I am deeply saddened to hear of Nancy's passing. She had a quick wit that kept others on their toes. My condolences to her family that she loved so dearly.

  32. Kik Poon lit a candle:
    29 Sep 2022
    Lit since September 29, 2022 at 9:00:16 PM

  33. Dolly Jimenez lit a candle:
    29 Sep 2022
    Lit since September 29, 2022 at 9:49:46 AM

  34. Megan Marchionne lit a candle:
    29 Sep 2022
    Lit since September 29, 2022 at 9:12:31 AM

  35. Walter and Susan Weaver says:
    29 Sep 2022
    To Nancy's family
    Sending heartfelt condolences from Canada. Nancy certainly made an impression on everyone that she met. We were overwhelmed by her dedication to her faith and love of family. Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers.

  36. Jasmine Scott lit a candle:
    28 Sep 2022
    Lit since September 28, 2022 at 9:23:11 PM

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    28 Sep 2022
    Lit since September 28, 2022 at 9:22:21 PM

  38. Tony Ganci lit a candle:
    28 Sep 2022
    Lit since September 28, 2022 at 9:59:11 PM

  39. Linda Ganci says:
    28 Sep 2022
    Nancy was great person who loved her family more than anything in life. She worked for me at Westinghouse/Siemens and she also worked at night to make ends meet for her sons. Two full time jobs to pay the bills. She was so exhausted most days that she would lay down under my desk and sleep for her lunch hour. Sometimes I would forget to wake her up.
    If Nancy was your friend she would do anything for you. She was there for me and my family when my son was killed by a drunk driver.
    I will always love Nancy she was wacky most of the time but always a true friend. Rest In Peace my friend.

  40. Maria Marchione(Kaiser) lit a candle:
    28 Sep 2022
    Lit since September 28, 2022 at 9:56:30 AM

  41. Mary Ann Liddy says:
    27 Sep 2022
    Nancy was a beautiful Christian woman who radiated a positive energy and love for everyone around her. She loved her boys and her grand children. Love and prayers.

  42. Anne Rogers lit a candle:
    27 Sep 2022
    Lit since September 27, 2022 at 9:40:48 PM

  43. Anne Rogers says:
    27 Sep 2022
    Nicole and family, so very sorry for the loss of you mother and grandmother. You are all in my prayers. Hold on tight to your beautiful memories.
    Anne, Massachusetts

  44. john OMARA says:
    27 Sep 2022
    love you Nance !

  45. Paulie D. lit a candle:
    27 Sep 2022
    Lit since September 27, 2022 at 9:31:22 PM

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