Pat, you and Lori meant so much to me in my teenage years. You always put a smile on my face and a laugh in my heart even at the times that I felt the worst pain in my life. I loved all the times Danielle, you and I did stuff together and had fun all the time. You were always a laughing, joking, easy-going, weird, funny guy who would always try to bring people up and loved to cheer people up when they were in a bad mood. z
YOu always pushed your kids and kids' friends to do great in life and held them above yourself (You did anything for them).
I really missed you before I found out about what happened, and then when I found out, I felt very devastated. Like a piece of me that I didn't even know was there just shattered, it was just complete shock.
It's been over a month and I still can't believe I will never see you again, I will never hear any more new things you are doing or working on, and I will never get to enjoy another new laugh or smile from you except for the memories in my heart and mind.
Wish things were different, you were so young to be taken. You still had so many things to do before you were unfairly ripped from the Earth and I hope you RIP.
You will always be in my heart, Love, Pam
29Jun2015
For the past 6 days, Ive been trying to make sense of what happened. I know there is a reason but so far I havent been able figure it out.
Over these last few days, Ive received so many phone calls and messages from many people. Some of them I havent heard from or seen for maybe 30 years. And after speaking with most of them they all said the same thing I just spoke with Pat. This blew me away. As busy and as hectic as some of Pats days were, he seemed to always find the time to reach out to others just to see how they were doing.
Id like to quote many of the people Ive spoken with these past few days to reflect on what Pat meant to them and words that have stuck with them. They said .
- Pat meant something to people.
- If you cant find it, build it yourself.
- Pat was helpful with getting our business off the ground.
- I am in disbelief. It isnt often I meet people with integrity and morals and I am saddened by his passing. God always takes the best of us.
- He was truly the shirt off his back kind of person.
- Hes a legend at what he did. He developed software which opened doors for others.
- Thank you for the time and encouragement you dedicated on the track and the friendship you demonstrated off it.
- Your personality was larger than life and you always made everyone feel good around you.
- I have the deepest and most profound respect for Pat. He, more or less, is one of the sole reasons I am who I am today.
- Pat helped me find parts for my restoration projects and more importantly gave the motivation to finish them.
- Thank you for your friendship and believing in me.
- You always took the time to talk to me.
- Lost on of my best friends today. One of the funniest, most giving and caring people.
- I will never forget the first time I walked into your shop how nice you treated me and what a great friend you were.
- Ever since I got the call, my week has not been the same. I loved you like a brother and Im so upset.
. And there were many more. There is a common thread from everyone that I spoke with or got messages from. Even as unorthodox that he was at times, that thread is that Pat was one of the best. Pat touched the hearts of many people all over the world. Some of the people Ive heard from are from Canada, U.S., Australia, Singapore, S. Korea, England, Turkey, S. America and the Middle East.
Patrick wasnt perfect but none of us are. However, he did have a heart of gold and a personality that people gravitated towards.
Patrick always had a unique way of doing things. You could ask him a question such as . Give me a mathematical equation that equals six. If I was asked this question, I would have said 3 + 3. But Pat .. he would have said 2 x 12 / 6 squared minus 10. His mind worked in a very unique way which always left me scratching my head.
In addition, I would like to tell Danielle, Paige and Lori that I am so sorry for your loss. As you just heard, Pat meant everything to me as he did to you. Look around this room. You are surrounded by love. You may not know some of the people very well but Id be willing to bet every one of them would be there if you needed to talk. I will be there. Youve grown into young adults but you still have long wonderful lives ahead of you. Your father and husband loved you all so much. He will be watching you and he will be sending signals. Look for those signals and signs because you dont want to miss them. You need to cherish them as I know I will.
Id like to say a few words on my wifes behalf. Her English is not great yet but in the short amount of time shes been here she had grown so fond of Pat. She looked forward to the days of seeing him because he always made her laugh and always showed interest with anything she had to say. Since the first day they met, she never stopped talking about him having such a huge heart.
Pat and I worked together for 26 years and before that lived together 18 years. So for 44 of the 49 years Ive been alive Ive seen Pat every day for many hours. Its extremely sad to know Ill be going into work next week without him there. There will never be another one like him. I love him and Ill miss him.
What can we learn from this? I think we can learn to be there for others who may be down on their luck or struggling. Pat did that. He was there to help even if it was just to lend a ear. Just because someone may have a smile on their face doesnt mean that their world isnt crashing all around them. Pick up a phone or send a message to say . Hello, how are you? We can never take anything or anyone for granite because we never know when it may be the last time we see or speak to them. This makes me think that this could happen to any one of us at any given time. Take life day by day and make sure that everyone that is important in your life knows how much you love and value them. Pat is at peace and I think he is smiling at the thought of how many people loved and cared for him.
Finally, I would like to quote an old motocross friend of years past that I spoke with this morning .. Pat will forever be in my mind as a great friend. He accomplished more in his career than most people have in several lifetimes. Always happy, positive and up beat. Whatever challenge he pursued, Pat accomplished. Now, in his last lap, Pat has won again . ETERNITY! I am confident we will all meet up again and the first thing youll notice is Pats smile.
25Jun2015
I didn't know Patrick well, had only met him a handful of times in my office, but he was very kind and courteous and thankful, he had a great smile and warmness about him. God rest his soul, and condolences to his family, have faith you will see him again.
23Jun2015
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers to your family. Remember the good times until you are all together again.
22Jun2015
Pat and Linda, We wish to express our deepest sympathy to you, the family and to Patricks friends. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and Patrick.
22Jun2015
Our hearts break for all the Stajdels. Patrick was a cool guy. His talent always amazed me simply because i had no concept of what skill it required. He was our neighbor too...Rest in peace.
22Jun2015
My cousin with a big heart and full of love . Although we did not see each other often you always held a special place in my heart . We are all deeply sadded , but we will await the day we will all be reunited .
I love you ,
Your cousin Christine
22Jun2015
What is time but a thing we create to control our lives, what are years when you feel no older then the age time has given us. We surround ourself with what we think is so important until we realize that it didn't matter what really matter was the support and love we are given , the lessons you give us the happy thoughts the jokes and bond that kepts us together . You may not be here physically but I know you are here , always around helping me off the ground . I will miss you it was too soon but I know you are in a better place . No more worries no more pain just that rainbow on the other side . I will see you again until then , this is not good bye this is happy trails . I love you dad with all my heart you were my hero my support you will always be here in my heart and always by my side . Until then .
21Jun2015
It was with deep sadness that we heard of the passing of Pat. He was a wonderful person and will be missed dearly. Please accept our deepest condolences.
21Jun2015
We are very sorry for your loss. Hugs sent your way. When someone we loves becomes a memory that memory becomes a treasure. Our thoughts are with you.
21Jun2015
We are very sorry for your loss. Hugs sent your way. When someone we loves becomes a memory that memory becomes a treasure. Our thoughts are with you.
21Jun2015
Pat, I love what your daughter said. "You are like the Wind." We no longer see you, but we know you are there. I will miss your laughs, your coaching, your mischievious nature, your dreams and innovations, your patience in walking me through a map or a diagnostic. Some times you were like a dyno fan or a Florida Hurricane and other times like a cool breeze at sunset. Love ya man and your huge circle of family and friends. R.I.P.
20Jun2015
I'm just so glad I was able to call you my friend. I'm really gonna miss our talks on the phone and your infectious laugh. What a great guy you were. I would like to send my deepest condolences to your entire family and your friends. RIP Pat, I'll never forget your beautiful soul
20Jun2015
I love you so much Uncle Pat. I will always remember you with a huge smile on your face. Enjoy heaven. 💕
20Jun2015
Pat I'm really going to miss you broI remember the first time we met lol! we were at McDonalds in Willingboro well Edgewater park on 130 1990I had put hydraulics on a turbo spectrum man you was laughing the way the car was jumpingI remember when your kids were born the good times and the bad timesyou taught me so much about turbos!you were there when I bought my first house remember how scared I was you said can't get and A if you scared to get a F ! anyway bro want your family know how much you meant to me..you are a good friend and my big brotherand the best tuner in the world you should have been on speed week!! from turbo tuned to the presentI love you big bro!! till we meet again Chris you lost one brother you gained another! family I love you all Neil
19Jun2015
Dear Linda and Pat,
My Mom and I extend our condolences to you both ,and are in our prayers.
19Jun2015
My heartfelt sympathies for the Stajdel family on the loss of beloved Patrick. There are no simple words to ease the sense of loss but a hope that the shared wonderful memories of his time with you bring solace and console the grieving heart. My deepest condolences and thoughts for all that he touched and loved during this difficult time.
18Jun2015
To the Stajdel family, you have our thoughts and prayers..... to Pat, Ride on my friend, Ride on.. 469 Rules....
18Jun2015
To my cousin Patrick and the memories that we shared over the years. The most fondest memorable one; is when Me, Kim, and Greg flew from Miami, Fl to Panama the summer of 1974 all by ourselves. (The Parrots were so cool)! At the Family Reunion a few years back, and spending time with you over Christmas 2014 and the conversations we had will always stay in my heart/soul. You were always so kind to me. I will miss you my Cousin. With Love Kevin Patterson
18Jun2015
Our deepest condolences to the entire Stajdel family. Patrick was a wonderful and talented young man. Nancy and I offer our sympathies and prayers for comfort to his relatives and friends.
16Jun2015
Patrick and Paige
16Jun2015
Patricks Family
16Jun2015
Patrick and Dani
16Jun2015
Cheryl and Patrick
16Jun2015
Patrick and Chris
16Jun2015
Pat and Chris
16Jun2015
Our Family
16Jun2015
The Guys
16Jun2015
Patrick
16Jun2015
Pat and Chris
16Jun2015
Patrick
16Jun2015
Patrick
16Jun2015
Patricks
16Jun2015
Pat with (right to left) Katie, Danielle, Michelle, and Pam
YOu always pushed your kids and kids' friends to do great in life and held them above yourself (You did anything for them).
I really missed you before I found out about what happened, and then when I found out, I felt very devastated. Like a piece of me that I didn't even know was there just shattered, it was just complete shock.
It's been over a month and I still can't believe I will never see you again, I will never hear any more new things you are doing or working on, and I will never get to enjoy another new laugh or smile from you except for the memories in my heart and mind.
Wish things were different, you were so young to be taken. You still had so many things to do before you were unfairly ripped from the Earth and I hope you RIP.
You will always be in my heart, Love, Pam
Over these last few days, Ive received so many phone calls and messages from many people. Some of them I havent heard from or seen for maybe 30 years. And after speaking with most of them they all said the same thing I just spoke with Pat. This blew me away. As busy and as hectic as some of Pats days were, he seemed to always find the time to reach out to others just to see how they were doing.
Id like to quote many of the people Ive spoken with these past few days to reflect on what Pat meant to them and words that have stuck with them. They said .
- Pat meant something to people.
- If you cant find it, build it yourself.
- Pat was helpful with getting our business off the ground.
- I am in disbelief. It isnt often I meet people with integrity and morals and I am saddened by his passing. God always takes the best of us.
- He was truly the shirt off his back kind of person.
- Hes a legend at what he did. He developed software which opened doors for others.
- Thank you for the time and encouragement you dedicated on the track and the friendship you demonstrated off it.
- Your personality was larger than life and you always made everyone feel good around you.
- I have the deepest and most profound respect for Pat. He, more or less, is one of the sole reasons I am who I am today.
- Pat helped me find parts for my restoration projects and more importantly gave the motivation to finish them.
- Thank you for your friendship and believing in me.
- You always took the time to talk to me.
- Lost on of my best friends today. One of the funniest, most giving and caring people.
- I will never forget the first time I walked into your shop how nice you treated me and what a great friend you were.
- Ever since I got the call, my week has not been the same. I loved you like a brother and Im so upset.
. And there were many more. There is a common thread from everyone that I spoke with or got messages from. Even as unorthodox that he was at times, that thread is that Pat was one of the best. Pat touched the hearts of many people all over the world. Some of the people Ive heard from are from Canada, U.S., Australia, Singapore, S. Korea, England, Turkey, S. America and the Middle East.
Patrick wasnt perfect but none of us are. However, he did have a heart of gold and a personality that people gravitated towards.
Patrick always had a unique way of doing things. You could ask him a question such as . Give me a mathematical equation that equals six. If I was asked this question, I would have said 3 + 3. But Pat .. he would have said 2 x 12 / 6 squared minus 10. His mind worked in a very unique way which always left me scratching my head.
In addition, I would like to tell Danielle, Paige and Lori that I am so sorry for your loss. As you just heard, Pat meant everything to me as he did to you. Look around this room. You are surrounded by love. You may not know some of the people very well but Id be willing to bet every one of them would be there if you needed to talk. I will be there. Youve grown into young adults but you still have long wonderful lives ahead of you. Your father and husband loved you all so much. He will be watching you and he will be sending signals. Look for those signals and signs because you dont want to miss them. You need to cherish them as I know I will.
Id like to say a few words on my wifes behalf. Her English is not great yet but in the short amount of time shes been here she had grown so fond of Pat. She looked forward to the days of seeing him because he always made her laugh and always showed interest with anything she had to say. Since the first day they met, she never stopped talking about him having such a huge heart.
Pat and I worked together for 26 years and before that lived together 18 years. So for 44 of the 49 years Ive been alive Ive seen Pat every day for many hours. Its extremely sad to know Ill be going into work next week without him there. There will never be another one like him. I love him and Ill miss him.
What can we learn from this? I think we can learn to be there for others who may be down on their luck or struggling. Pat did that. He was there to help even if it was just to lend a ear. Just because someone may have a smile on their face doesnt mean that their world isnt crashing all around them. Pick up a phone or send a message to say . Hello, how are you? We can never take anything or anyone for granite because we never know when it may be the last time we see or speak to them. This makes me think that this could happen to any one of us at any given time. Take life day by day and make sure that everyone that is important in your life knows how much you love and value them. Pat is at peace and I think he is smiling at the thought of how many people loved and cared for him.
Finally, I would like to quote an old motocross friend of years past that I spoke with this morning .. Pat will forever be in my mind as a great friend. He accomplished more in his career than most people have in several lifetimes. Always happy, positive and up beat. Whatever challenge he pursued, Pat accomplished. Now, in his last lap, Pat has won again . ETERNITY! I am confident we will all meet up again and the first thing youll notice is Pats smile.
I love you ,
Your cousin Christine
My Mom and I extend our condolences to you both ,and are in our prayers.
Patrick and Paige
Patricks Family
Patrick and Dani
Cheryl and Patrick
Patrick and Chris
Pat and Chris
Our Family
The Guys
Patrick
Pat and Chris
Patrick
Patrick
Patricks
Pat with (right to left) Katie, Danielle, Michelle, and Pam