Richard “Dick” O’Connor (January 23, 1944 - July 01, 2020)

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Richard “Dick” O’Connor
  • January 23, 1944
  • -
  • July 01, 2020

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It is with deep sorrow and much love that we mourn the passing of Richard (Dick) O’Connor of Marion, New York. Dick passed peacefully on July 1, 2020 at the age of 76 years old at Highland Hospital. He was a beloved husband, father, grandfather and great-grandfather.

Dick will be remembered by his loving wife of 37 years, Carol (Meyers) O’Connor whom was at his side when he passed; children: Brian (Joanne) Howard, Carl (Alyshia) O’Connor and Debbie Bigley-O’Connor. His four grandchildren and three great-grandchildren, his military brothers in arms, many friends and community members, will also remember him.

Dick was born in Geneva, New York to Elinor and Michael Joseph O’Connor. He spent over 10 years in the United States Army as an Army Ranger. Dick participated in a special operations group while he was in the Army called “Guns-a-Go-Go”. Dick served his country with honor and distinction by completing two tours in the Republic of Viet-Nam (1966-1967 and then 1970-1971). While serving overseas, Dick was awarded (amongst many other citations) a purple heart, and the Distinguished Flying Cross.  Dick worked at the Marion Central School District for over 25 years and was a life-long member of the Marion Legion, VFW and Marion Minute Men Honor Guard.

One of his most vivid memories was when he was able to participate in Rochester Honor Flight Mission 60 with his son Carl in 2018, as they toured the monuments of Washington DC remembering those that paid the ultimate sacrifice for our country. He cherished the hero’s welcome he and his military brothers so deservedly received upon their return to Rochester.

Calling hours will be on Thursday July 23rd from 4pm-6pm at the First Baptist Church of Williamson in Williamson, NY. Due to COVID-19 restrictions, a small service will immediately follow. To watch the service live, please visit When you scroll down it shows their Facebook feed and you can watch videos there. Or participants can go to the First Baptist Church Facebook page at:

Burial with full Military Honors will take place on Friday July 24th at Sampson Military Cemetery in Romulus, NY.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Honor Flight Rochester ( or, pass it forward by buying a veteran a meal at a local restaurant.


First Baptist Church of Williamson
4212 E Main St, Williamson, NY 14589
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Date & Time:
July 23, 2020 at 4:00 PM

Sampson Veterans Memorial Cemetery
6632 NY-96A, Romulus, NY 14541
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  1. Tino Livas says:
    25 Jul 2020
    R.I.P. To our Band of Brothers, My deepest condolences to you and your family

  2. Jason W Allen says:
    25 Jul 2020
    Carol and family ,
    We send our Condolences and god bless you all.
    Staff Sargeant, I am forever better for meeting you and to have coffee with such a legend. You are a true American and will be deeply missed by everyone. God bless

  3. Keenan lit a candle:
    20 Jul 2020
    Lit since July 20, 2020 at 7:34:42 PM

  4. William Howard says:
    15 Jul 2020
    To the Connor family i send my condolences on you loss my god bless you and you family is this grieving time.

  5. William Howard lit a candle:
    15 Jul 2020
    Lit since July 15, 2020 at 7:45:37 PM

  6. Dave and Dave says:
    15 Jul 2020
    Our thoughts and prayers for Carol and family. Dick will be missed. His wonderful caring personality will stay forever with us in our hearts. We haven’t know Dick very long, but felt we have known him all our lives. He was just that kind of guy. RIP our dear friend.

  7. Judy and Gordy Reed lit a candle:
    15 Jul 2020
    Lit since July 15, 2020 at 7:19:08 AM

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  9. John and Sue says:
    14 Jul 2020
    What great sorrow we have for Carol and the family of Dick. What a pleasure it was to get to know him over the years he spent Winters in our community. He will be missed by many. Deepest sympathy to All.

  10. Candy Maley says:
    14 Jul 2020
    Thank you for your service Mr. O'Connor. May you rest in peace with a higher power.

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