Elaine Tilkins (September 13, 1942 - January 05, 2024)

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Elaine Tilkins
  • September 13, 1942
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  • January 05, 2024

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Elaine Joyce Lloyd Tilkins of Port Orange, Florida passed away peacefully at her home surrounded by her family on January 5, 2024. She was 81 years old.

She was predeceased by her loving husband of 60 years, John Earl Tilkins on September 14, 2021. She was also predeceased by her loving daughter, Kathryn (Tilkins) Darling on March 6, 1987.

Elaine was born on September 13, 1942, to the late Beatrice Helena (Baker) Lloyd and William Henry Lloyd in Syracuse, New York. She was a homemaker.

She is survived by her loving children, Julie (Tilkins) & Phillip Golden of Port Orange, Florida.
Jeanne (Tilkins) & Tracy Pierce of Liverpool, NY.
Jackie (Tilkins) & William Smith of Liverpool, NY.
Jennifer (Tilkins) & Robert Wells of Central Square, NY.
Sarah (Darling) & Nick Vitale of Palm Coast, FL.
She is also survived by 14 grandchildren, 15 great grandchildren as well as a large extended family with several nieces and nephews.

Elaine loved spending time with her family, watching Shark Tank, telling stories, playing Yahtzee, doing word searches, and reading Nicholas Spark books. She loved eating her cream puffs every morning with a cup of coffee. She loved spending time with her dog, Molly. She was precious cargo to all those around her.

She Will Be Greatly Missed and Forever in Our Hearts!

As per Elaine’s wishes there will be no calling hours and burial will be in Richland, New York in her hometown in the spring of 2024.


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  1. Jackie says:
    16 Apr 2024
    Hey Momma. I miss you so much. I love you more than all the stars in the sky.

  2. Jackie says:
    01 Apr 2024
    Hey Momma. Holidays are so hard. I was up at 3 am thinking about you and dad and how much I miss you both every second, every minute of every hour. Whenever I have some news I want to pick up the phone to talk then I remember your not here no more and My heart breaks a little more. What I wouldn't give to sit and talk or just hold you or tell you i love you and that I need you here. I love you momma ❤️ and miss you so

  3. Sarah Vitale says:
    14 Feb 2024
    It's my first birthday without you this year and It's just not the same. I miss you everyday. I love you.

  4. Jackie says:
    12 Feb 2024
    I still can't believe your gone. I find myself wanting to pick up a phone and call you to chat. But then it hits me that you are no longer here. It breaks my heart in two. I miss you and daddy sooooo much. I love you more than all the stars in the sky

  5. Sarah Vitale says:
    06 Feb 2024
    I love you and miss you everyday!

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    25 Jan 2024


  7. Sarah Vitale says:
    25 Jan 2024
    I was thinking about you today while I was shopping today and realized it's just not the same without you. I miss you and think about you everyday. I hope you are at peace with grandpa, mom, and Miss Molly. I wish I could just give you a call to hear your voice but I can't and it's heartbreaking. I love you and miss you dearly. My sunshine.

  8. Daryl Duff Dyer lit a candle:
    17 Jan 2024
    Lit since January 17, 2024 at 1:38:03 AM

  9. Jackie says:
    15 Jan 2024
    Thinking about you today and always Momma. I miss you and love you more than all the stars in the sky.

  10. Jackie lit a candle:
    15 Jan 2024
    Lit since January 15, 2024 at 1:56:40 PM

  11. Phillip golden lit a candle:
    13 Jan 2024
    Lit since January 13, 2024 at 1:48:17 PM

  12. Phillip golden says:
    13 Jan 2024
    Only Angels know how to fly , Fly High Ma, my dear friend… I’ll always remember your inspiration you gave me in the things I did.. We’re going to miss you & the love & care you gave to each of us we’ll be loving you everyday of our lives, Rest In Peace knowing I’ll always be loving & watching over your Boo ❤️‍ Go walk & talk with Jesus Until we are united in heaven again… Love You So , Love You So , Love You So , LOVE YOU SO ❤️

  13. Jackie says:
    13 Jan 2024
    Hey Momma. I miss you so much.

  14. William Smith lit a candle:
    13 Jan 2024
    Lit since January 13, 2024 at 1:15:45 AM

  15. William Smith says:
    13 Jan 2024
    Grandma, I will always remember that talk we had out in the driveway the day before we left Florida in 2021. I can’t believe you’re gone but I know Grandpa, Kathy, Angel and Molly are up in heaven welcoming you home. I love you

  16. Jackie lit a candle:
    12 Jan 2024
    Lit since January 12, 2024 at 1:38:40 PM

  17. Debora Golden lit a candle:
    12 Jan 2024
    Lit since January 12, 2024 at 1:11:58 AM

  18. Sherry Davidson says:
    11 Jan 2024
    Julie, didn’t know your mom but I knew you and you are a special person so I know your mom was just as special. We love you and your family and are praying for you all!

  19. Julie Golden says:
    11 Jan 2024
    Mama always and forever in my heart! ❤️ miss you soooo much you were my Bestfriend ! My Beautiful Mama I miss your beautiful smile , your everyday Love You So! Your beautiful velvet hair! Your life was never the same after Daddy’s passing no matter what anyone did you were broken ! You are reunited with Daddy and he was there to take you by your hand! Love you So Mama! Now my life has for changed ! I miss you so much . I am lost! Mama stay with me like Daddy does! I am getting your signs! Love you Mama!

  20. Sherry Davidson lit a candle:
    11 Jan 2024
    Lit since January 11, 2024 at 1:20:43 AM

  21. Julie Golden lit a candle:
    11 Jan 2024
    Lit since January 11, 2024 at 1:15:07 AM

  22. Stephanie Golden lit a candle:
    10 Jan 2024
    Lit since January 10, 2024 at 1:50:15 PM

  23. Stephanie says:
    10 Jan 2024
    Gammy,
    You will be so missed! But it gives us peace knowing you are complete again, with Your sailor. Your prince charming! A genuine love like yours is a true treasure. You sure did love hunting for treasure but you were our treasure. When somthing was broke or needed a sew you fixed it like new. You seen the true beauty in everything and made everything beautiful. Like your beautiful daughters who you held a special relationship and bond with. You two left a beautiful Blond hair blue eye legacy behind that is so beautifuly growing. I always felt like I was part of your family like you so gracefully sewed me in. I will miss seeing you. You always made sure we had a seat you were the best host, friend, and Gammy.It means alot that you came out to our home I know it was a long ride but you took it anyways more then once. That ment the world to us. Im glad I got to hug and kiss you the last time I seen you. Make sure you save a seat up there in heaven for us. Until we meet again in our heart is where we will keep you forever and will never forget you!

  24. Phillip Golden lit a candle:
    10 Jan 2024
    Lit since January 10, 2024 at 1:25:15 PM

  25. Linda Wilson Jones lit a candle:
    10 Jan 2024
    Lit since January 10, 2024 at 1:39:42 PM

  26. Linda Wilson Jones says:
    10 Jan 2024
    ❤️ I loved my Aunt Elaine, she knew it and I am sure now that she is with Uncle Jack.

  27. Gail Wilson Vance lit a candle:
    10 Jan 2024
    Lit since January 10, 2024 at 1:57:44 PM

  28. Felicia Golden lit a candle:
    10 Jan 2024
    Lit since January 10, 2024 at 1:08:10 PM

  29. Susan Hendrickson lit a candle:
    10 Jan 2024
    Lit since January 10, 2024 at 1:52:43 AM

  30. Laurie Metz says:
    10 Jan 2024
    Love and prayers go out to all my cousins during this sorrowful time. So so sorry for your loss.
    Laurie Metz

  31. Stephanie Harrington (Tilkins) lit a candle:
    10 Jan 2024
    Lit since January 10, 2024 at 1:59:37 AM

  32. Stephanie Harrington (Tilkins) lit a candle:
    10 Jan 2024
    Lit since January 10, 2024 at 1:59:01 AM

  33. Leslie Gorgoni lit a candle:
    10 Jan 2024
    Lit since January 10, 2024 at 1:31:32 AM

  34. Sierra Golden lit a candle:
    09 Jan 2024
    Lit since January 9, 2024 at 1:00:26 PM

  35. Chris Golden lit a candle:
    09 Jan 2024
    Lit since January 9, 2024 at 1:06:01 PM

  36. Cathy Robinson lit a candle:
    09 Jan 2024
    Lit since January 9, 2024 at 1:19:00 PM

  37. Jackie Smith says:
    09 Jan 2024
    Hey Momma. I miss you so very much. I wish you were still here but I know your at peace now and dancing the evening away with Daddy, and taking nice long walks holding hands. Together, Forever Again for all of eternity. I love you more than all the stars in the sky mom. I will miss your laugh your voice and all your love and your beautiful smile everyday for the rest of my life. I know you will be watching over us. Till we meet again mom. All my Love with Big Hugs Foever. Love your favorite daughter
    Jackie

  38. Jackie Smith says:
    09 Jan 2024
    Hey Momma. It has been so hard without you here already. I miss you soooo very much and will do so everyday of my life till my last breath. I love you more than all the stars in the sky. it's going to be so hard without you here. But I know you are in heaven with Daddy and you two are dancing the night away. I love you so much. Rest now beautiful lady. Until we meet again. Big Hugs always and lots of L❤️ VE Always.

  39. Jackie Smith lit a candle:
    09 Jan 2024
    Lit since January 9, 2024 at 1:42:58 PM

  40. Jackie lit a candle:
    09 Jan 2024
    Lit since January 9, 2024 at 1:42:15 PM

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