Mary Jane Marnell (June 27, 1940 - January 14, 2024)

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Mary Jane Marnell
  • June 27, 1940
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  • January 14, 2024

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Mary Jane Marnell of Fort McCoy Florida, formerly of Evans Mills New York, died peacefully in her Florida home on Sunday January 14th, 2024, at the age of 83.

She was born June 27, 1940, in Gouverneur, New York. Mary Jane graduated from Heuvelton High School in 1958 where she was the Treasurer of the Library Club and the Newspaper Fashion Editor. She spent her days outside of school taking care of her grandparents’ farm, whereas a young woman, she cultivated the qualities of hard work, self-reliance, and caring for family, which she would be known for all her life.

After the passing of her dear father, Vaughn Klock, she relocated to Evans Mills, New York. Here, she spent many years as a bartender at the KimOi and Omars Inn. Most importantly she was known for her selfless service to the community fostering over 400 children who needed a loving home. Many of whom still call her “Mom” or “Momma Marnell” today. She loved gardening, farming, mowing her lawn, fishing on the river at her home and spending time with family and friends. After raising her family and foster children on her farm in Evans Mills, she moved to Fort McCoy, Florida in 1997 where she lived with her loving partner William Elsey for 24 years.

Mary Jane was a wonderful mother, foster parent, partner and friend. Despite the distance from her friends and family, she treasured the phone calls, the letters, and the visits from the people she loved and had friendships that spanned decades. She was warm and welcoming to all and will be missed for her loving, accepting spirit.

She was proceeded in death by her son John Marnell, mother Martha Ambrose and her father Vaughn Klock. She is survived by her partner William Elsey, daughters Becky and Christina Marnell, her son James Marnell, daughters-in-law Stephanie Marnell and Jennifer Hicks, grandchildren Kelsey, Katelynn, Jarrett, Marissa, Noel and Victor Marnell, Collene Doney, Matthew & Nicholas Comini and her 8 great grandchildren.

There will be a celebration of life for Mary Jane at Eagle Ridge Community Center 26095 Kestrel Drive (off Route 342), Evans Mills, NY 13637 on Saturday, April 6, 2024 from the hours on 1:00PM – 4:00PM. In lieu of flowers please send donations to the Amyloidosis Foundation: https://www.amyloidosis.org/, which was a cause very dear to her heart.


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Location:
Eagle Ridge Community Center
26095 Kestrel Drive (off Route 342), Evans Mills, NY 13637
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Date & Time:
April 6, 2024 at 1:00 PM


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  1. Joseph Chase says:
    02 Apr 2024
    She was my foster mom from 1988 -1990. She ran a sheep farm with 50 sheep at the time . It was interesting to watch her shear the sheep every summer. We would also help herd the sheep early saturday mornings. It was a really cool experience. they would dump piles of wood down in the cellar for the furnace and we kids would help stack it. She took us all down to florida to disney world and silver springs. We went down in an RV and every time we would hit another state, Mary jane would get out her bicyle horn and honk it. Becky marnell played this game with us to see how many different state licence plates on cars we could spot. then there was the "punch bugs". I could never spot one before every one else and I always got the punch. Sleeping in the top conpartment over the driver side was also cool. That was all really cool. What foster mom does that? My sister is Christina Marnell. Mary Jane adopted her, supported her and helped her to be successful. for that I will always be grateful. Living with her was a positive experience I'll never forget. I was I could tell her how thankful I am. She will no doubt be missed by many

  2. Liz Daugherty says:
    01 Apr 2024
    What sad news that Mary Jane has passed. She was a wonderful foster parent and she was always willing to take in "just one more". Mary Jane was able to take a child and show them what a real mom was!!! Mary Jane God will bless you really well when you enter His kingdom! Rest in peace!

  3. Tyler Marnell lit a candle:
    18 Feb 2024
    Lit since February 18, 2024 at 2:24:48 PM

  4. Sue (Barbarito) Gardner says:
    26 Jan 2024
    40 years ago, Mary Jane babysat my infant son when I went to work. Dropping him off in the morning and picking him up later in the day, I always felt he was in the best of care. When my baby rolled over for the first time when he was with her, she made a big fuss to show me what he had accomplished so I didn't miss a thing. I know it must have been quite a challenge caring for the many foster children she took in, but I always remembered one thing she said: regardless of the problems a child had be it emotional or physical, all they needed was love. I think she provided that. A very kind woman with a great heart.

  5. Stephanie Marnell says:
    23 Jan 2024
    Mom...that silly giggle you have. Those big happy eyes, those loving arms. It was truly a pleasure having you as my mother-in-law. I enjoyed your many stories and tidbits of advice, especially when dealing with the kids - you definitely knew best! You are so very missed, but I find peace and I am comforted in the fact that you & Johnny are together again and watching over all of us. I know how dearly you missed him, as we all do. Until we see each other again... love you always.

  6. Becky Sue Marnell says:
    23 Jan 2024
    Mom,

    It's hard to imagine never hearing your voice or laugh again, to wrap my arms around you for a long hug or to talk for hours about everything and anything. I find comfort knowing you are hugging Johnny right now and watching over us.

    Thank you for being the most loving mother a daughter could ask for. For showing how to navigate this world with strength, grace and kindness. I hope I live every day to make you proud. You were loved beyond measure. Your absence is felt by everyone who loved and cherished you.

    We love you mom always and forever. Xoxo

  7. Kimberly Fancher says:
    22 Jan 2024
    She was always such a loving wonderful woman. God has gained another amazing angel! Sending lots of love to all of your family!!

  8. John says:
    22 Jan 2024
    I always knew you would leave me one day I just didn’t expect it to be this soon you were the second mother I never knew I needed I’ll miss the long conversations we had after bill went to bed at least now your with your other son John only got to meet him once but it was a weekend I’ll never forget miss ya and love ya with all my heart mom

  9. Doreen Ambrose says:
    22 Jan 2024
    Sending sympathy to all. MaryJane was always kind to me and I remember talking with her on many occasions when spending time at Jim and Martha's home. RIP Doreen and Dan Ambrose.

  10. Jarrett Marnell says:
    22 Jan 2024
    Rest in peace grandma, I love you and always will. Thank you for letting me be a part of your journey.

  11. Dan Ankeny says:
    22 Jan 2024
    Even though we only spoke to each other on the phone, I could see through the eyes of others the love and kindness you bestowed. May you rest peacefully among the angels.

  12. Jennifer Hicks says:
    22 Jan 2024
    Mama, I miss you so much already. I miss our phone calls and visits too. I hope you and John are enjoying your days up there :) Thought you'd get a kick out of the fact that when I got home and went to cut my first grapefruit from your tree, Aiden attacked me wanting to try. Without sugar, he said it was OK. When I added sugar, he then had to have his own. Now I cant cut one without cutting 2. I know you're watching over us. We love you!

  13. Michael Sipple says:
    22 Jan 2024
    We love you Momma. Thank you for loving Becky and I, and for welcoming me so warmly into your family.

    We will always be thinking of you. You did not go away. Now, you are Everywhere. You are only as far away as our lovely memories of you, and what you have meant for both of us and our families. You will forever be close to our hearts, and in our minds.

    And Leo loves you too!

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