In loving memory of
Mildred B. Oglesby

• February 16, 1925
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• April 20, 2012

that, instead, he reuesfd to walk her home *because* of certain reasons. Reasons that he shared with you, but maybe he didn't share it with her the same way. There's a good chance that in a moment of there's no way I can sleep with this chick, so what's the point? he gave her sour energy stemming from the sourness of him not being able to hit his target.So instead of being a gentleman, walking her the rest of the way while enjoying *the moment*, he walked away with his being-a-big-baby-because-he-didn't-get-what-he-wanted energy.And now to protect his ego, he would tell YOU about what happened but from a perspective that he could have NEVER been in the wrong, stating facts and positioning statements so that you take his side of things (which you should naturally feel obligated to do because of your friendship).There's nothing wrong with a married woman enjoying the company of another man. They hadn't slept together yet. And I would agree that the hand-holding thing is speculative, no relationship had been established.And there was alcohol involved!Your friend displayed the characteristics of a boy . The developed spirit of a GENTLEMAN would have accepted the situation for what it was, kept a vulnerable member of the pack safe until she returned to her hut, and then later down the road enjoyed the fuits of her speaking very highly of him to her sexy single friends.He thought only of himself, which I'm sure he made very obvious to her (though told you in such a way that it would make her out to look like the bad guy), and now he's reaping what he's sown.