Ralph was born in Evanston, Illinois. He served in the United States Army during WW II in the European Theater where he earned a Purple Heart and Bronze Star. He was a member of the Military Order of the Purple Heart. He came here in 1974 following retirement after 30 years with wallpaper manufacturing management. Ralph enjoyed woodworking, watching television and reading.
He leaves to cherish his memory a daughter Ann Corder of New Smyrna Beach, sisters Pauline Heyser of Winter Park, FL, Helen O'Leary of Jackson, WY, three grandchildren and numerous nieces and nephews.
Donations are requested to Hospice of Volusia 3800 Woodbriar Trail Port Orange FL 32119.
Private service will be at the convenience of the family.
I remember the smell of Pine Sol as he cleaned the house. He was a great cook and spent much time in the kitchen making the family meals. One of my most vivid memories was Mr. Dabkiewicz standing on one side of the stove and Mrs. Dabkiewicz standing on the other. Ann and I would be sitting at the long kitchen table as we had many discussions. What about, I don't remember. What was so special was the feeling that Mr. and Mrs. Dabkiewicz slways made me feel like I belonged.
I visited Ann and Mr. Dabkiewicz in February. I had a very pleasant time and Mr. Dabkiewicz made me feel just as special as he always did when I was a child.
I am sure that he is with the angels. He was a very special man. He will always be a part of my life. Thank you, Mr. Dabkiewicz, for your generosity and kindness. I will never forget you.
I hope this finds you well. Your Dad found peace and he is sitting around with a bunch of veterans buddys telling the tells.
Thinking of you and your family.
Phil Giorno
The Little Ship
I stood watching as the little ship sailed out to sea. The setting sun tinted his white sails with a golden light, and as he disappeared from sight a voice at my side whispered, He is gone.
But the sea was a narrow one. On the farther shore a little band of friends had gathered to watch and wait in happy expectation. Suddenly they caught sight of the tiny sail and, at the very moment when my companion had whispered, He is gone a glad shout went up in joyous welcome, Here he comes!
Here he comes,,,,,Lord, embrace him and care for him with your infinite love. Reconnect him with those who have gone before him,,, make him whole and well again, and give him eternal life with you. Amen
Even though we spent almost every summer down there, this one stays in my memory because I got a REALLY bad sunburn that year... they grew there own Aloe and they put it on me..Man did that help.
I remember him and Grandma being patient with us while teaching us to make shell mirrors when they owned there little shop on the beach.."D" Originals...I loved the sound of all of the windchimes that they made ringing both in the store and at there home.
I will so miss finding new chocolates special for him for his birthday and Christmas....
I feel blessed to have shares time with him in these past few weeks... I got to once again see his wit and humor as he charmed the nurses, as well as his stubborness...hee hee.... Though I never heard the actual words "I LOVE YOU" I heard it in his serveral heartfelt thank yous for being there for him and for Mom, and his asking about my family...with affection... I will never forget our little chats about Wyoming... and his time in the service...
I am very proud to call Ralphial Bernardas Dabkiewicz my Granddad... I have thanked him many times for his service to us in the war... in which he was humbled by..
I learned so much from his experiences both in the War and in his time as a traveling saleman.... So some of the saleman stories got alittle winded HEEE HEEE Just take the I 230 to exit 60 and itll take you tooooooooo...?????
He will be much missed... and always loved...
then there was the day in my 40's you rode Boychik to around Brooks Lake, mom walked and I rode Big (my new horse) When we got back you informed me Boychick did not ride like any of the race horses you had ridden - I replied what race horses?? Somewhere along the line I had missed that you rode race horses - so you sent me a picture when you got home. in 1991, you baby sat Kalo and Boca when I took mom and dad on a 21day float trip down the Grand Canyon of the Colorado. Every week you drove Boca over to Dr. Tiger's for an ultrasound treatment, where Boca would jump up on the bench seat next to you and sit for her 1/2 hour session. Remember all those float trips down the Snake river some with Polly and Ray and almost always with the dogs. Bald eagles, deer and other animals. Then one year we made you camp out, up on the knoll by your other favorite Sleeping Indian, you slept in Polly and Ray's van, all the rest of us in tents. We had a bid campfire, and cook out, watched the sunset on the sleeping indian and behind the tetons. It is such a beautiful spot. I was so glad you could come back a couple of years ago, and we drove around to all those places, and even over to see Robin (my horse trainer friend) in Dubois and have a beer. you will be missed. Hope you and Dad are enjoying lots of dirty water and being able to move around with ease
love you, will miss you Maureen
Annually, he and Rosemary opened their home to my mother and us when we traveled to the warm winter weather from Ohio. His hospitality and gentle ways with a warm and fun sense of humor provided us with many smiles.
We loved hearing his stories of how he and other army soldiers landed on Normandy Beach in France on D-Day. What an incredible contribution he made to our national history! He made the history books come alive for us.
We will miss Ralph Dabkiewicz and felt privileged to know him.
May he now join the many loved ones we have waiting for us to join them when our turn comes.
To Ann--you've proven your dedication to your father and now we hope you relax and enjoy your life!
I will always be your "right hand man"
Love you forever Dad,,,,,,,,,,,Ann