Shirley Durgin (January 20, 1921 - February 28, 2013)

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Shirley Durgin
  • January 20, 1921
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  • February 28, 2013

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Shirley F Durgin, 92, died Thursday, February 28 2013 In New Smyrna Beach, FL. She was born in Beverly, MA on January 20, 1921, daughter of Perley & Glendene Ricker Fillmore. She was the widow of Capt. Ralph Durgin, U.S.A.F. who died in 1958. She attended schools in Beverly, MA until the age of 8 when her family moved to Freeport, ME. Her parents purchased the Roseland Cabins which they owned and operated for 48 years. She graduated from Freeport High School in 1939. Shirley retired from L.L. Bean. During retirement she enjoyed driving, knitting, and working in her flower gardens when not spending time with her beloved family. In later years, her good friend and companion, Leon Cushing moved in with her until he died in 2001. She is survived by three children: a son Stephen Durgin and his wife Blanche Brentzel-Durgin of Oak Hill, FL,  daughter, Diane Briggs and her husband, George of Freeport, ME, and a daughter, Rosanne Durgin and her companion, Frank Vonasek, of Pownal, ME; five grandsons and one granddaughter. She always said, "Thank God for my children". Grandchilden are Scott and Laurie Durgin, Gary and Karie Durgin, Greg Coffin, Tom and Amy Coffin, Robert Coffin and Lisa Randall, great grandchildren Brandon Durgin, Noah Coffin, Delaney Durgin, Dominique Durgin, Chelsea Durgin and Jordan Randall. Step grandchildren Holly Anderson and Michael Briggs and step great grandchildren Trent and Sydney Anderson. She also leaves a dear friend Judy Puiia and many beloved nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by brothers Loren and Merton (Bud) Fillmore. Life Celebration will be held in Freeport, ME at a later date. Donations are requested in her memory to First Parish United Church of Christ 40 Main Street Freeport ME 04032 or North Pownal Methodist Church Lawrence Road Pownal ME 04069.  

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  29. Diane (Durgin) Briggs says:
    23 Mar 2013
    Miss you very much Mom!!! New Smyrna isn't the same without you. The celebration of Mom's life will be held at the UCC Congregational Church in Freeport on July 20th at 1 p.m.

  30. Linda Montague - (Smart) says:
    21 Mar 2013
    Aunt Shirley the last time I saw you was @ Aunt Edna's funeral & I new you right away. Hadn't seen you for years, but I new it was you! I remembered your smile & laughter & the twinkle in your eye. :-) Been thinking of you a lot lately (about 1 year now & wanting to see you & don't know why) but couldn't remember where the house was,so sorry! RIP Aunt Shirley :-( - You enjoy being with Uncle Ralph! Also other family members, please tell my mother "I LOVE HER." See you all someday in the mean time if you see my mother, you 2 better stay out of trouble! :-) Steven, Diane & Rosanne I'm so sorry for the loss of your mother! I saw it in the paper & started to cry. Told my husband that was my Aunt Shirley he met awhile back & he remembered her & said she was a very nice person. Also I noticed the date she passed away. It was weired cause I had been thinking about her 2-3 days before & again before I read it in the paper. Aunt Shirley died on my birthday, sorry I'm gonna cry again. Please let us know when & where the Life Celebration will be held! Thank you! Love you all - Aunt Shirley I will aways remember your laughter & smile!

  31. greg says:
    17 Mar 2013
    Hi gram. I just want you to know that I think of you everyday and that I miss you so much. Life isn't the same without you here.. I LOVE YOU GRAM .

  32. Margie & Steve Stairs says:
    09 Mar 2013
    So sorry to hear of the loss of such a wonderful lady. She was like a mom to me for so many years. We will always remember the great times. Love always!!

  33. Bethany says:
    08 Mar 2013
    I had the honor of meeting "gram" a few years ago and she made her way into my heart within a very short time.. She was full of fun and had sooo many stories to share that I can only imagine she is up there laughing right now and sharing all those stories with a whole new audience! I am truly blessed to have met her and the impression she made with me - and that wonderful smile of hers - will stay with me forever.. Rest in Peace Gram - you will be missed..

  34. Jordan Randall says:
    08 Mar 2013
    I will miss playing cards with you and your milkshakes! You will always have a place in my heart great grammy! Love you!

  35. Jordan Randall says:
    08 Mar 2013
    I will miss playing cards with you and your milkshakes! You will always have a place in my heart great grammy! Love you!

  36. The Libby Family says:
    08 Mar 2013
    Our family and all of True Street (Upper Pleasant ST) will miss Shirley. She was always a hoot and we all loved her and her spark for life.

  37. Noreen says:
    07 Mar 2013
    To the Durgin family,
    My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Treasure your memories, those can never be taken away. I so enjoyed working with Shirley in the Ladies Department at LLBean. We always had a great time. I was thrilled to see her a couple of years ago when I lost my aunt. She had not changed a bit. She was a wonderful woman. Take care, Fondly Noreen Stilkey Cormier

  38. Anne Tuttle says:
    07 Mar 2013
    I loved Shirley, she was like a second Mother to me. She loved a good joke, her laugh was infectious. She dearly loved her family and friends and will be missed by all but never forgotten. I will miss her.

  39. lili says:
    07 Mar 2013
    Momsie, I was very sad to see the obit, loved your sense of humor and smiles and I know you always had a blast in the sun with Diane and Georgie. Have fun in Heaven, Love Lili

  40. Jim Roma says:
    06 Mar 2013
    Eternal rest grant unto Shirley, O Lord.
    And let perpetual light shine upon her.
    May her soul, and the souls of all the faithful departed,
    through the mercy of God, rest in peace.
    Amen.

  41. Linda Fillmore Cleaves says:
    05 Mar 2013
    Shirl, Really going to miss you. Sometimes I felt we were very similar...wild and crazy, with that loud fillmore mouth. Really going to miss stopping in with the grandgirls. I'm glad they got to meet you. Love, Linda P.S.Say hi to Mom and Dad.

  42. Judy Puiia says:
    05 Mar 2013
    Shirley, (Mumsie to me) was a wonderful friend. I had many good times with her and the family. Lots of memories I will hold in my heart and cherish. Until we meet again Mumsie..........love you

    Judy

  43. Robin OConnor says:
    05 Mar 2013
    Dear Grammy Durgin. You were such a sweet, funny, lovable woman. You are with your angels and they love you. My thoughts and prayers go out to Diane and the entire family. May you all remember all the fun and laughter. God bless you.

  44. Lee Fillmore says:
    05 Mar 2013
    I was glad I had the opportunity to meet her, what a nice lady. I enjoyed looking through her book of Fillmores.

  45. Peggy Barger says:
    05 Mar 2013
    MOM, as she asked me to call her....What a joy and loved her spunk and spirit...Cute as a button and one of a kind..Will miss her so much...Peggy

  46. Scott Durgin says:
    04 Mar 2013
    Gram will be sorely missed. She made the person she was talking to, whomever it was, feel like the most important person in the world. It gives me great comfort that my daughters got to know and love her. I hope she is careful not to pull a 'hammy' with all of the cartwheels she must be doing this week! Love you Gram!

  47. Blanche Durgin says:
    03 Mar 2013
    Mom came into my life when I met Steve 5 yrs. ago, I loved and admired her from the first moment I met her. I lost my Mother when I was 28 and she was 59 when she died. Mom has filled a void and a space in my heart to where I could share things with her that I was unable to share and do the things with my own mother due to her long fight with cancer. It was wonderful just to be with her, to wash & style her hair, or go shopping at Bealls or just sit on the front porch and watch the neighbors go by.To see the big smile on her face when she would rub our dog Freckles tummy. She loved Freckles so much. Mom was a beautiful person inside and out and she loved her family unconditionally and if you befriended her, she was your friend for life. I hadn't met one person that didn't praise her and fall in love with her. I for one will truly miss her. Steve and I will miss her our hearts will be very heavy come December when we both would look so forward to her winter visits. She raised a wonderful son whom she was very proud of and 2 beautiful daughters she just adored. She loved them all with all her heart. Well all miss you Mom, rest in peace,love you Blanche and Freckles too.

  48. Steve says:
    03 Mar 2013
    Mom,I know you know just how I felt about you. I told you that Scott and Gary my two son's turn out very successfull because of your support and help.As did everyone in the family. We all will miss you everyday. I'm sure we will meet again. Hope your still laughing as always. Love Steve

  49. Steve says:
    03 Mar 2013
    Mom,I know you know just how I felt about you. I told you that Scott and Gary my two son's turn out very successfull because of your support and help.As did everyone in the family. We all will miss you everyday. I'm sure we will meet again. Hope your still laughing as always. Love Steve

  50. NANCY(COFFIN)TOMPKINS says:
    03 Mar 2013
    SHIRLEY I WILL FOREVER MISS YOU AND OUR TALKS ABOUT LIFE AND BOTH OF OUR PASTS AND CRAZY EXPLOITS...YOU ARE MY IDOL AND I TRY EVERY DAY TO ENJOY LIFE AS YOU DID..THRU YOU I GOT THE SISTER I ALWAYS WANTED AND WILL FOREVER FEEL BLESSED THRU YOU AGAIN TO HAVE MY THREE BOYS TO LOVE AS MY SONS...THRU YOU AGAIN I NOW HAVE MY BELOVED NOAH . IAM TRULY BLESSED TO HAVE HAD YOU IN MY LIFE..GIVE MY MOM A HUG FROM ME AND I KNOW YOUR REGALING EVERYONE WITH STORIES ABOUT ALL OF US YOU LEFT BEHIND...I KNOW YOUR UP THERE NOW DANCING AND HAVING A BALL..NO MORE PAIN.. WILL BE TOGETHER AGAIN SOME DAY AND I,LL HAVE STORIES FOR YOU...KEEP THEM LAUGHING GIRL!!!!!

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