James Thomas Murphy (April 28, 1929 - January 28, 2025)

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James Thomas Murphy
  • April 28, 1929
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  • January 28, 2025

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James Thomas “Murph” Murphy, 95, of Venice, Florida, departed this world on January 28, 2025, leaving behind a legacy of service, leadership, and boundless kindness.

A proud son of Ironton, Ohio, Murph’s journey began as a basketball star at Ironton High School (’48), leading to a college scholarship. His commitment to service called him to the U.S. Navy during the Korean War, after which he pursued higher education, earning both bachelor’s and master’s degrees in Advanced Technology.

His remarkable career spanned education and infrastructure, serving as the youngest high school principal in his district, an industrial arts teacher, Director of Buildings and Grounds at Eastern Kentucky University, Assistant Director Physical Plant at University of Cincinnati, Director of Physical Facilities at The Ohio State University, and Operations Consultant at Tate Monroe Water Association. Yet Murph’s greatest achievement was his impact on others – he never met a stranger and touched countless lives with his legendary generosity and wit.

He is survived by his devoted wife of 46 years, Darlene Ruth Roberts Murphy, and was preceded in death by his son Maurice Ray Murphy. His memory lives on through his children, grandchildren, nieces, nephews, and the countless friends who became family.

A private burial service with military honors will be held at Sarasota National Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, honor Murph’s spirit by extending kindness to a stranger – perhaps with a cup of coffee or a cold beer.

The family extends special gratitude to Jennifer Flick, NP, for her dedicated care over the past 15 years.


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  1. Randy Wooten says:
    10 Mar 2025
    Rest in Peace Murph !! You had a remarkable life !!

  2. Michael Bebee lit a candle:
    17 Feb 2025
    Lit since February 17, 2025 at 2:55:11 PM

  3. Colin lit a candle:
    17 Feb 2025
    Lit since February 17, 2025 at 2:28:27 PM

  4. Erin Elizabeth says:
    15 Feb 2025
    They say grief is love with nowhere to go.
    Dad, you made my world feel safe. I know you said the love we shared will never go away.
    I have always said I hit the jackpot for parents with James and Darlene.
    The gift of having amazing parents is you have to share them; you were inspiration to all of us.
    Your energy will never die, you touched too many lives with your kind heart.
    Your memories are truly a blessing.
    Rest in Eternal Peace Dad, I love you more.
    #1 Erin Elizabeth

  5. Tina Wertz says:
    14 Feb 2025
    Murph was such an Amazing man and was loved by so many. He was a Wonderful Uncle to me also. He always made everyone feel special.
    He nicknamed me “Little Darlene “ which of course knowing how much he loved her made me feel special.
    I am praying for Aunt Darlene and all of his children
    He will be Loved Forever ❤️

  6. Harold E Reed lit a candle:
    12 Feb 2025
    Lit since February 12, 2025 at 2:21:03 PM

  7. Gina and Scott Cranfill says:
    11 Feb 2025
    The loss of Murph breaks every heart. Murph made u his family and with everything he did it made and imprint on our hearts. The pride and love for his family was the greatest love of all.

  8. Gina and Scott Cranfill says:
    11 Feb 2025
    He has the biggest most beautiful wings!! He was the greatest father, husband and friend. Mine and Scott’s hearts are full of the love and care that he gave us and how he opened his arms and we became his family.
    There are no words to honor such a great man!
    Erin , u know my love for u .
    Scott and I will always be here for u and your mom.

  9. Harold E Reed says:
    11 Feb 2025
    I was so blessed to know Mr. Murphy. He was my Industrial Arts teacher from 1958 to 1961 at Trenton H.S. When I graduated, Mr. Murphy told me he had registered me at Eastern Kentucky State College. He told me to have my suitcase packed and be standing on my front porch at 9:00 a.m. Saturday. He picked me up and drove me to the college, took me to my dorm room, and then went into town and bought me all the supplies and personal items I would need for the semester. He planted the seed and said he thought I would make a good schoolteacher. Thanks to Mr. Murphy, I earned a B.S. and a Masters degree in education and became an art teacher. He was my teacher, my mentor, my hero, and my beloved friend.

  10. Gina and Scott Cranfill says:
    11 Feb 2025
    There are no words for the loss of such a wonderful husband, father and friend. And u were so much more but I can’t find the words.
    Thank u Murph for making Scott and me part of your family and the little things you would do to fill our hearts with so much love.
    And we will take care of the Jubilee tomatoe plants that u and Scott planted together and u said u planted “ special for us”!

    We love u and will miss u every day but only with the happiness u brought to us.

  11. Jeanne Cardillo says:
    11 Feb 2025
    "Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy." - Inuit Proverb

  12. Jeanne Cardillo lit a candle:
    11 Feb 2025
    Lit since February 11, 2025 at 2:29:25 AM

  13. Kateryna Takmakova says:
    10 Feb 2025
    He was a kind, loving, and incredible man who touched the lives of so many. His warmth, wisdom, and unwavering love for his family will never be forgotten. Sending love, strength, and prayers to Erin and her family during this difficult time. May he rest in peace.

  14. Kateryna Takmakova lit a candle:
    10 Feb 2025
    Lit since February 10, 2025 at 2:31:50 PM

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    10 Feb 2025
    Lit since February 10, 2025 at 2:48:58 PM

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    10 Feb 2025
    Lit since February 10, 2025 at 2:47:42 PM

  17. Sandy McGowan says:
    10 Feb 2025
    Erin,
    Your father was a special man and you were lucky to have him. He loved you and your Mom and would want you to be happy again.
    Sandy

  18. Theresa Krieg lit a candle:
    10 Feb 2025
    Lit since February 10, 2025 at 2:41:51 PM

  19. Veronica Scott says:
    10 Feb 2025
    Murph, you left us all too soon and you are sorely missed. He was a kind and gentle man, always ready to lend a hand to anyone. He enjoyed talking about his days in Ohio, Kentucky or his time in the Navy.
    His family was his heart and he was loved beyond words. He was so respected by those of us who knew him.
    Thanks for letting me know you and your family. I’m going to miss your bean soup. Fly high, Jim, you surely earned your wings. Ronnie

  20. Darwin G. Brown says:
    10 Feb 2025
    NONE BETTER. Having known Mr Murphy since 1957 when he was my I.A. teacher, and now at the age of 82 years old, I still say that there was….NONE BETTER! Going to miss our phone calls and reminiscing! Loved him and privileged to have known him all these years!
    May God bless Darlene, Erin and all the family.

  21. Jacob and Kiersten lit a candle:
    10 Feb 2025
    Lit since February 10, 2025 at 2:34:31 PM

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    10 Feb 2025
    Lit since February 10, 2025 at 2:34:04 PM

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    10 Feb 2025
    Lit since February 10, 2025 at 2:33:31 PM

  24. John and Tausif Churyk and family lit a candle:
    10 Feb 2025
    Lit since February 10, 2025 at 2:30:51 PM

  25. Shanette Crume lit a candle:
    10 Feb 2025
    Lit since February 10, 2025 at 2:07:30 PM

  26. Anna Cullop says:
    10 Feb 2025
    He was bigger than life! Was always a special time when we knew Uncle Sonny would be there! No cheek was safe from his “sugar”. He will be truly missed. Love to all!

  27. Heather says:
    10 Feb 2025
    Murph was an original. I feel so lucky to have met him. He never knew a stranger. I will try to be better person to be more like him. My heart breaks for his Erin and his whole family as they deal with the crater of the loss of this towering figure for which there is no equal. Xoxox

  28. Veronica Scott lit a candle:
    10 Feb 2025
    Lit since February 10, 2025 at 2:00:08 PM

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