Obituary
THOMAS ALAN BARNES – 32 OF CAPE CORAL,FL PASSED AWAY ON NOVEMBER 4TH – 2022 IN FT. MYERS FL.
THOMAS WAS BORN IN HOLLYWOOD , FL. TO THOMAS J. AND TAMMI L. BARNES ON December 2, 1989
BEFORE MOVING TO CAPE CORAL IN 1998, ATTENDING SCHOOL @ PELICAN ELEM., GULF MIDDLE AND IDA BAKER HIGH
HE WORKED AS AN ALUMINUM INSTALLER FOR 14 YEARS. HE WAS EMPLOYED @ HANGING GUTTERS AND WAS TAUGHT THE TRADE BY HIS FATHER.
THOMAS IS PRECEEDED IN DEATH BY HIS GREAT GRANDPARENTS: W.W MARTIN AND CORDELL MARTIN; HIS GRAND MOTHER SHARON STEIGER, AND BY HIS UNCLE MARTIN ( MARTY ) OWEN.
THOMAS IS SURVIVED BY HIS SISTER MELISSA BARNES, PARENTS THOMAS J. AND TAMMI L. BARNES, HIS NIECE MIKAILA BARNES OF CAPE CORAL AND GRAND PARENTS LINDA C. RUSS OF PANAMA CITY,FL AND THOMAS BARNES OF CHICOPEE MASSACHUSETTS, HIS UNCLE JASON OWEN OF PANAMA CITY,FL.
A VISITATION WILL BE HELD 12PM – 2PM ON SATURDAY NOVEMBER 19TH @ BALDWIN BROTHERS 4320 COLONIAL BLVD, FT MYERS , FL. 33966 WITH A CELEBRATION OF LIFE MEMORIAL SERVICE TO FOLLOW AT 2:00PM
THE FAMILY OF THOMAS ALAN BARNES WISHES TO EXTEND OUR SINCERE THANKS TO ALLEN STORMS AND BALWIN BROTHERS FOR ALL OF THIER HELP DURING THIS DIFFICULT SITUATION
THOMAS WAS A HARD WORKER AND HAD A HEART OF GOLD, HE WILL FOREVER BE IN OUR THOUGHTS AND IN OUR HEARTS
Service
Location:
Baldwin Brothers
4320 Colonial Blvd
4320 Colonial Blvd
Date & Time:
November 19, 2022 at 2:00 PM
Cemetery:
Monarch Crematory
I miss you more than words can ever say. I find myself thinking of you everyday, I can't talk about you to anyone I just can't yet . It hurts my heart and soul to know that you died alone, like the way you felt in life ,this has brought me to my knees like the drugs did to you.I can't remember what your voice sounded like, I called your phone hoping to hear your voice again. And I hate that you had nothing in life to look forward to. And no happiness, I know that you didn't want to die and you didn't want to be on the drugs, They took your soul. I still look for you to be walking down the street, I am so sorry no one could help you. And when they say it gets better with time, it doesn't it gets worse. And I beat myself up every day about what ifs and why. I pray for signs that you are around and okay. Wondering if there is life after death and hoping I can see you again. I am not afraid of death but afraid that I will never see you again and that everything I was taught growing up was a lie. I kick myself for not telling you how much I love you, I hope you knew, I know that you thought no one cared or loved you it is not true, we all loved you and still do. We hated the drugs and what they did to you.I know the way you acted wasn't the real you. And I miss you so much. My soul is broken and my heart aches, I am lost in a nightmare and I can't wake. I love you forever my dear son. Mom
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