Obituary
We had a beautiful military service with the 21 Gun salute, Taps, presenting of the Flag and full honors at the Florida National Cemetery on March 3, 2020 with friends and family.
A beautiful, loving & touching Celebration of Victors Life was finally (because of COVID) held April 3, 2021 at Cassadaga Spiritualist Camp Davis Hall (because the temple was closed for remodeling) Rev. Don Zanghi officiated beautifully. Rev. Louis Gates & his wife Marie talked about their years with Victor. Many family, friends and loved ones, sèance sitters, and Victors students told beautiful and loving stories about their experiences knowing Victor.
Victors physical body was cremated and I sprinkled his ashes around the yard at our new home. He loved this house so much, it was our dream home. An urn with ashes was placed in the Memorial Wall at the National Cemetery and I have some ashes to sprinkle around the cottage in Cassadaga.
Anyone who knows Victor knows the loves of his life was the military, he was Junior ROTC in Deland High School, US Air Force also US Army. His service to spirit at Cassadaga and one of his favorite places Metaphysical Resource Center in Metairie, Louisiana. He worked as a Medium, Sèance Medium, Healer, Teacher and After Life Coach. He brought love and closure to so many people through his séances. He loved or cared for everyone who sat at our table. And He loved me, his wife. I loved him since the minute we met at Rev. Zanghi’s class in Cassadaga. We have been best friends and we totally supported each other for many, many years. We married June 18, 2005. We all know love never dies.
It is really so sad that he’s gone from our world. He was such a sweetheart, such a wonderful, humble, honest, loving, caring man. Those who loved him kept praying & believing that he was going to live. He said many times, his mom beat cancer three times and he was determined to beat it. I guess God needed that angel more than we do and I understand why, because he helped so many people in his short lifetime, maybe there was more souls that needed him over there.
God bless Victor. God bless us all.
Thanks to all who loved him & sat with us
One of Victors favorites from his phone. True dat ❤️
I wish you were here so we could have a séance with her.
Victor and his dad the two handsomest guys I know ❤️
Here’s a beautiful picture I found on Victor’s phone. He loved the energy of the full moon. Many nights we would go dance in the moonlight. One fun night after a séance we came out of the house with a bunch of sitters and there was such a huge full moon that we all spontaneously started howling. A lady driving by our house stopped in the middle of the road and asked what we were doing. I told her we were howling at the full moon, it releases anger and aggression. She parked her car and joined us. It’s great when people get it. Victor wasn’t the howling type, he was more the basking in the moonlight type, but I just can’t forget his smile, standing in the doorway watching all of us.
This was Victor‘s ad in the Cassadaga Annual Program.
That’s us ❤️
This is from Victors phone. There’s our two little ferrals, grandpa Blackie and The Baby. Baby was the scrawniest looking little ugly boy when he first came to us but he grew into the cutest, with the most beautiful blue eyes you ever did see!!
I sure miss them both ❤️
Victor always thought that Blackie McBlackerson was a reincarnation of this old man grandpa Blackie.
Can’t remember what we were doing taking these photos by the front door, but I love the shirt that he has on, and I’m posting this because he is so darn cute.
A ship sails and I stand watching till she fades on the horizon, and someone at my side says, "She is gone." Gone where?
Gone from my sight, that is all, she is just as large as when I saw her...
The diminished size and total loss of sight is in me, not in her,
and just at the moment when someone at my side says "she is gone",
there are others who are watching her coming,
and other voices take up a glad shout "there she comes!" ...and THAT is dying. Bishop Brent
Anniversary
Xo
This was the lesson of the day for unity magazine for our wedding day.
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P3
P2
These are our wedding invitations page 1
The man and his kitty cats surveying his kingdom. He loved this house so much! He was content ❤️
T - Thank you for sending me a picture of Victor in your mirror that’s amazing.
Thanks to those who are playing with their Ghost Radar Apps and talking to Victor. I love to know that he’s not forgotten.
He’s never forgotten for a moment in my day or my life.
Hibiscus from my sister for Mother’s Day. this pic was on Victor‘s phone. I was transferring all the photos over to my phone so I can look through them.
My soldier his flag Grandmas lily plants and aloe plants from old house in DeLand ❤️
A fun memory of a week in Key West with friends!
The favorite picture I’ve ever taken. this is with an old iPhone IAura app. They discontinued it when they kept upgrading the iPhones but it was a great app. this is Victor and Dennis a medium from England who was pretty much the Better Homes & Gardens type of guy he would recommend mediums around the world so he came and sat with us and gave Victor his approval. He put Victor in the magazine that he produced back there for sitters to find us ❤️ If you look closely at the picture you can see three masters. Kathumi is standing behind them in the cabinet you can see the jewel in his crown. And that’s just one reason we love to do séances xo
I grew up with Victor from junior high, high school and military times. He was one of 6 or 7 guys we associated; Mike, Ross, Lyle, Wayne, JC and me. I always enjoyed my time with Victor et. al. We read comic books, talked about sci-fi and went to a bunch of Saturday morning movies at Athens Theater. When ever I called or visited Victor it was as if time was compressed and it wasn’t 6 moths, a year or a whole assignment between, we just took a deep breath and started talking. I know Victor has all his white robes in inspection order. I look forward to seeing my friend(s) on the other side. Rest easy, Victor, my friend! ❤️✝️
Victor and I in the sèance room after a séance and look at that orb over his head.
Our favorite table tipping peeps happy Easter peeps ✝️
Our first trip to New Orleans met so many wonderful friends there and fantastic spirits ❤️
An anniversary gift from my sister for our Cassadaga cottage ❤️
Always a smile with these two here. ❤️ V2 & Penny
Victor had this on his phone and it’s so true. He left behind so much love and blessings from those who know him, sat with him, and learned from him. ❤️ LOVE NEVER DIES ❤️
Victor in his reading room probably 2008
Blessed be my friend.
One of Victors favorite toys, I would call them, but to him they were very serious Tools of the Sèance! ❤️
Truth ❤️
Victors Memorial Book p1
Victors Memorial Book p2
Victors Memorial Book p3