Obituary
We had a beautiful military service with the 21 Gun salute, Taps, presenting of the Flag and full honors at the Florida National Cemetery on March 3, 2020 with friends and family.
A beautiful, loving & touching Celebration of Victors Life was finally (because of COVID) held April 3, 2021 at Cassadaga Spiritualist Camp Davis Hall (because the temple was closed for remodeling) Rev. Don Zanghi officiated beautifully. Rev. Louis Gates & his wife Marie talked about their years with Victor. Many family, friends and loved ones, sèance sitters, and Victors students told beautiful and loving stories about their experiences knowing Victor.
Victors physical body was cremated and I sprinkled his ashes around the yard at our new home. He loved this house so much, it was our dream home. An urn with ashes was placed in the Memorial Wall at the National Cemetery and I have some ashes to sprinkle around the cottage in Cassadaga.
Anyone who knows Victor knows the loves of his life was the military, he was Junior ROTC in Deland High School, US Air Force also US Army. His service to spirit at Cassadaga and one of his favorite places Metaphysical Resource Center in Metairie, Louisiana. He worked as a Medium, Sèance Medium, Healer, Teacher and After Life Coach. He brought love and closure to so many people through his séances. He loved or cared for everyone who sat at our table. And He loved me, his wife. I loved him since the minute we met at Rev. Zanghi’s class in Cassadaga. We have been best friends and we totally supported each other for many, many years. We married June 18, 2005. We all know love never dies.
It is really so sad that he’s gone from our world. He was such a sweetheart, such a wonderful, humble, honest, loving, caring man. Those who loved him kept praying & believing that he was going to live. He said many times, his mom beat cancer three times and he was determined to beat it. I guess God needed that angel more than we do and I understand why, because he helped so many people in his short lifetime, maybe there was more souls that needed him over there.
God bless Victor. God bless us all.
Thanks to all who loved him & sat with us








Miss Sara Lee Vogenitz
Vics handsome boy. Blackie McBlackerson. Vic believed this was a reincarnation of our ‘old man’ Blackie, our feral, who fell in love with Victor and who passed in our yard after many years of loving us and entertaining us with his antics. Blackie passed around Christmas and a year later I found Mr. Blackie McBlackerson, named by the girls at our vet, he was about six months old in December 2017. it was love at first sight when he saw Victor. Victor was a cat person from top to tail. Mr Blackie joined his sister Sarah (found 2010) at our house. he would sleep with this head tucked near Victors heart in Vics armpit. Where ever his dad went, there was Blackie. he would follow him along like a puppy. it’s adorable. when Vic first got sick it was so sad to see Blackie and Sarah waiting by the door when I came home from the hospital to see if I brought dad home with me. when they didn’t see Victor they turned around and hung their heads. SO SAD. >oO< MEOW from the kitties.
Wow look at this sweet face :)
After a fantastic sèance with loved ones ❤️
Young man Happy go lucky ❤️
Home Sweet Home
He was always my angel and I know he still is. Such a loving, sweet peace loving soul.
The VFW post 10209. Presenting the colorguard, flags, guns, tabs . beautiful! such an amazing, respectful ceremony.
Jacobs Ladder, This illustration shows spirit can go up the ladder and back down to visit us when they want.
The Villages VA 2019
Obit for Deland
After a sèance.
Victors memorial plaque
Christmas 2018
This is Esther, John Edwards the medium, Victor. We saw JE 3 times. One year we used this as our Christmas card.
I’m going to post a bunch of pictures so everyone can see the you that I love, that we all love xoxo E
U r still awesome in death! All the cool things we didn’t know, that made u so great and made u so humble are surfacing! U will live forever in our hearts! But we KNOW you are not that far away from us! Thank u for serving this great country! Thank u for being u!! The world was lucky to have u and so were we!! We love u Victor!! ❤️❤️❤️❌⭕️