Obituary
We had a beautiful military service with the 21 Gun salute, Taps, presenting of the Flag and full honors at the Florida National Cemetery on March 3, 2020 with friends and family.
A beautiful, loving & touching Celebration of Victors Life was finally (because of COVID) held April 3, 2021 at Cassadaga Spiritualist Camp Davis Hall (because the temple was closed for remodeling) Rev. Don Zanghi officiated beautifully. Rev. Louis Gates & his wife Marie talked about their years with Victor. Many family, friends and loved ones, sèance sitters, and Victors students told beautiful and loving stories about their experiences knowing Victor.
Victors physical body was cremated and I sprinkled his ashes around the yard at our new home. He loved this house so much, it was our dream home. An urn with ashes was placed in the Memorial Wall at the National Cemetery and I have some ashes to sprinkle around the cottage in Cassadaga.
Anyone who knows Victor knows the loves of his life was the military, he was Junior ROTC in Deland High School, US Air Force also US Army. His service to spirit at Cassadaga and one of his favorite places Metaphysical Resource Center in Metairie, Louisiana. He worked as a Medium, Sèance Medium, Healer, Teacher and After Life Coach. He brought love and closure to so many people through his séances. He loved or cared for everyone who sat at our table. And He loved me, his wife. I loved him since the minute we met at Rev. Zanghi’s class in Cassadaga. We have been best friends and we totally supported each other for many, many years. We married June 18, 2005. We all know love never dies.
It is really so sad that he’s gone from our world. He was such a sweetheart, such a wonderful, humble, honest, loving, caring man. Those who loved him kept praying & believing that he was going to live. He said many times, his mom beat cancer three times and he was determined to beat it. I guess God needed that angel more than we do and I understand why, because he helped so many people in his short lifetime, maybe there was more souls that needed him over there.
God bless Victor. God bless us all.
Thanks to all who loved him & sat with us








Not a good day. Missing you. Should be kissing you my love
Victor loved the military!
Please honor at least one veteran with a card and fill it with love! ♥️
Remember the 2,403 that died at Pearl Harbor.
The three handsome Vogenitz men who are all having a happy heavenly birthday party for Paul today. You would be 99 today, one more year and you would’ve made it to 100 I like we talked about. I hope you get one of those big cupcakes that you always loved. Miss you Pablo ♥️ Victor please give him a big hug for me.
Victor, Dad and Esther Christmas
Victor and Dad
Victor in his uniform for work at the correctional center. He sort of looks like the guy Roy Schneider that played the Sheriff in the movie Jaws https://www.bing.com/search?q=Roy Schneider&FORM=ANCMS9&PC=U531.
Happy Thanksgiving to all our loved ones here and those in the hereafter. I thank my God for you all ♥️
Another pic found of my handsome hunk of man ♥️
We’re not weird.
We’re interesting. ♥️
My handsome Vet at the VA. 07.21.18
Victor visiting me when I was stationed at England AFB LA in 1978.
Victor in 1978 at my apartment in Alexandria LA when I was stationed at England AFB LA. I had been home (Fla) on leave and he drove with me back to LA and stayed a few days.
Sunday morning 81° Me & the kitty cats are sitting here on the screen porch Missing You and loving you ⭕️❌♥️
Facebook memory from 2017. Tears popped out of my eyes when that popped up on my screen. Victor I miss you so much.
TBT from Victor’s iPhone. I try to remember this every minute that I’m missing you. ❤️ I love you Victor.
One of your favorite pictures from the Cassadaga cottage. ❤️
By the way the picture below of Esther & Victor and the Halloween theme could not have been taken in 2019 Victor was in the hospital since Sept 12 so I’m thinking this picture was actually 2018.
2019 E V
I’m so sad that you’re not here ❤️
Victors’ Military Memorial service March 3, 2020.
That’s his sign that hung in the window at the cottage ❤️
2012 i think... Edwin Haring and myself and another lady from my church... and the vogenitz's... great table tipping sessions!
2016 Victor and I studying about Table tipping on a seance trip... loved my trips up there to see you guys.
2016, Trip to Cassadaga to see my buddies Esther and Victor... to learn, play, study and enjoy life. I miss you Victor! Appreciate you and Esther so much!
Victor and Valorie in grandmothers front yard in 1956 or so. Mother liked this picture.
Victor as a very young one.
This is the most favorite picture I ever took. iPhone used to have an app called iaura. we took photos of our séance peeps and gave them to each with their aura. Before and after a séance This is Victor with Dennis from England. He was kind of like the good housekeeping seal of approval for mediums in England. He had a world renowned magazine. after he sat with you and liked your séance, he would refer You to his magazine subscribers. But if you understand, look closely at the photo and you’ll see the ascended masters in the photo also! it is amazing!
When I wrote coming soon, I meant to attach this photo. Lol I’m living to 100, thank you God ✝️ so I hope you’re not waiting for me to come soon I love you.
Missing you ❤️
One MORE time ❤️
Yes, you are my sunshine my love ⭐️
One year ago today Victor had his first chemo shot and his last chemo shot. He was taken immediately to the emergency room and was admitted to the hospital. He never got out alive. sad day ❤️
From Victors iPhone. We said this often. HaHaHa ❤️
This is from Deanies fb page. Victor of course I’ll have coffee with you forever ❤️ I even posted a cup that his military buddies gave him for best coffee ever. ❤️
Victor has been talking about Dads cousin Richard and Victors dad, Paul on the ghost radar. This is my favorite picture of those two handsome guys in Cuba when they were kids. ♥️